Paris & The Victim Playing Coercive Controller | Domestic Violence, Narcissistic Abuse

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

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🗓️ 8 April 2024

⏱️ 84 minutes

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Summary

In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Paris tells her story of marrying a victim-playing abuser. At first, Paris was love-bombed in a way that set her heart on fire. It was intoxicating and overrode all her other senses. From there, her future abusive husband began to play the victim in his life and use guilt to hook Paris in for good. It was a whirlwind that was hard to break free from, and before she knew it, as soon as they were married, the abuse and devaluation began. It's a story putdowns, doubt, humiliation, entitlement, self-centeredness, stalking, church abuse, physical abuse, sexual coercion, emotional abuse, manipulation, coercive control, gaslighting, infidelity, domestic violence, domestic abuse, narcissism, toxic relationships, self-worth, patriarchy, financial abuse, and post separation abuse. *** CONTENT WARNING - This episode discusses physical abuse, sexual coercion, and uses the "r" word when recreating dialogue from their abuser. *** If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com To help out our podcast, please fill out our listener survey, click here. PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS: Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here Something Was Wrong | Click Here If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA

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0:00.0	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we talk with an abuse survivor named Paris, and
0:07.0	Paris was married to a controlling victim-playing abuser. It's a story of put-downs, doubt,
0:14.4	humiliation, entitlement, self-centeredness, and post-separation abuse.
0:50.3	Music self-centeredness, and post-separation abuse. Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse, everyone. I am Brandon Chadwick, and with me today, we have Paris. How are you?
0:58.2	I'm good, Brandon. How are you? Well, I'm doing well. Thank you for asking and thank you for being here. And if you want to be a guest like Paris is today, please do go to our website at
1:03.4	Narcissistapocalypse.com. Top of the page, there's a button that says guest form. When you click on
1:08.9	that button, it takes you to our guest form page.
1:11.7	And there you can read all of our instructions and then send us an email at Narcissist Apocalypse
1:15.7	at gmail.com or fill out our guest form and press the submit button. And please do send it in the
1:21.0	format that we ask for. And today's episode has a content warning as we do graphically discuss
1:27.3	physical abuse and sexual
1:28.7	coercion.
1:29.9	And the R word is used in this episode as well when we were recreating dialogue from the
1:35.2	abuser.
1:35.7	So that is our content warning for today.
1:39.4	And today we're going to be hearing Paris's story.
1:42.1	And Paris's story is one where she just wasn't
1:45.1	dealing with the control of her husband, but as things devolve, the church she is now a part of
1:52.0	because of her husband, becomes very involved in her life and becomes part of the abuse, too.
1:56.6	So a big, big thank you to Paris for being here with us today.
2:01.2	And now I'm going to get out of my way and your way.
2:04.2	Paris, the floor, is now yours.
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