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Breakpoint

Parents of Transgender-Desiring Kids Must Play the Long Game

Breakpoint

Colson Center

Christianity, News Commentary, News, Religion & Spirituality

4.83.1K Ratings

🗓️ 2 August 2022

⏱️ 1 minutes

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Summary

In a recent article at The Gospel Coalition, writer Sarah Eekhoff Zylstra tells the story of a Christian family with a teen who once identified as transgender.  

"I started to associate womanhood with being sexualized," says Grace, now age 16. Peers, teachers, counselors, and—above all—social media circles guided Grace towards a strong case of rapid onset gender dysphoria. She stopped wearing feminine clothing and asked her parents to refer to her as "they/them."  

This is the moment that many parents fear. These parents prayed hard, stayed true, and remembered the long game. "They built their relationships with her," writes Zylstra. "They drew boundaries around how she could express herself. They took her to counseling and to church."  Eventually, Grace began to feel comfortable as a girl again.  

In a culture where nearly 1 in 5 of Gen Z calls themselves "LGBT," the story of Grace and her family is worth reading. At a time when so many are tempted to despair, it does not offer a quick fix. But it does offer truth, love, and hope. 

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0:00.0

With our kids, we often have to play the long game.

0:03.0

For the Colson Center, I'm John Stone Street with The Point.

0:06.0

In a recent article at the Gospel Coalition, writer Sarah Zilstra tells the story of a Christian family with a teen who once identified as transgender.

0:14.0

Quote, I started to associate womanhood with being sexualized, says Grace, who's now 16, peers, teachers, counselors, above all social media circles,

0:22.4

guided Grace toward a strong case of what's known as rapid onset gender dysphoria.

0:27.4

She stopped wearing feminine clothes, she asked her parents to refer to her as they, them.

0:32.1

That's a moment that many parents fear.

0:34.4

These parents prayed hard.

0:36.0

They stayed true.

0:37.0

They remember the long game. They

0:38.5

built relationships with her, described Zilstra. They drew boundaries around how she could express

0:43.4

herself. They took her to counseling and to church. Eventually, Grace began to feel comfortable

0:48.5

as a girl again. In a culture where nearly one in five Gen Ziers called themselves LGBTQ.

0:56.8

The story of Grace and her family are worth reading.

1:02.4

At a time, when so many are tempted to despair about this issue, it doesn't offer a quick fix.

1:05.9

What it offers is truth, love, and hope.

1:07.2

I'm John Stone Street.

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