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Hello, I'm currently out of office.

An article I read recently said we're more relaxed and more productive after a good break.

So I've gone to Barbados for a month for science.

Yours, Toby.

Take your holiday as seriously as British Airways holidays take your holiday.

Atul protected.

So I took your advice from last season and got my own sugar grams.

But the problem is now he wants to be official.

He wants to take pictures of us and for me to put them on my Instagram, my Facebook.

He wants to meet my parents.

He wants to meet my whole family. And he's even talked about

getting engaged and having kids later on. But he already has a kid and the kids like my age. So I just

wanted your advice basically on how to keep our relationship a secret. Love you, stay case.

Love you too. Um, okay. There's a lot to cover here. Um, firstly, congrats on your sugar

grams. Um, for those that don't know, that's an older, um, sometimes extremely older,

um, man who's cashed up, um, as they say, and you're using him for

some financial support along the way and then, you know, ultimate payday when he pops off.

So yeah, it sounds like you've nabbed a silver fox with a very fat wallet. Um, good on you. So, um, if you're not ready to go

public, that's tricky. Um, I've been there. You want to keep it a secret. Um, so with the older guys,

I've dated. I've always gone for, um, a long lost grandpa storyline, um, for people that I don't want to, like, reveal

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