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Note to Self

Parents Just Don’t Understand, Tech Edition

Note to Self

WNYC Studios

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4.72.7K Ratings

🗓️ 3 May 2017

⏱️ 24 minutes

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Summary

Uh, mom, the eggplant emoji is not about food. The crying-laughing emoji is not appropriate for funerals. And dad, just texting 'K' is super passive-aggressive. This week, a real live therapist tackles your intergenerational tech dilemmas. And we try to stop copping out of tough conversations with a text. Admit it, you do it too.

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0:00.0

Hey note yourself. My name is Hannah and I'm from Bethesda, Maryland. I tend to find

0:05.7

tech miscommunications between generations just hilarious.

0:09.0

My 87-year-old grandfather recently got a smart phone and the other day he wanted to check

0:14.8

the score of a Kansas City basketball game and he starts screaming into his phone.

0:20.8

Google! Google!

0:22.1

I got the honor to teach my mom exactly what happens when you send a group text because

0:28.5

she sent a picture of a sunset that said beautiful sunset. I wish you were here to all

0:35.9

four of her boyfriends at once.

0:38.3

That's bad. It's note to self. I'm a new summer ody this week. You just don't get it.

0:50.1

But we can communicate better on our phones, on text, on social, IRL. That's in real-life

0:57.1

mom. We have answers. We asked you dear listeners for some stories about your parents or your

1:04.4

kids and some of them really made us cringe like Tracy who you heard calling from Tallahassee.

1:10.4

The one whose mom sent a group text message to all four of her boyfriends at once.

1:16.7

She had two fields, all of the calls saying, who is this? Who is this? So she called me

1:24.7

in a panic and I got to explain them. When you send a group text everybody gets everybody's

1:29.9

phone number. Needless to say, she is not dating any of them anymore but she is happily

1:36.3

married and she knows how to group text.

1:42.5

Someone had a happy ending but communicating by text or email or social media you told

1:48.6

us so often results in misunderstandings, especially between different generations. Sometimes

1:56.7

those results are funny. But often the interactions are also kind of painful.

2:04.5

My neighbor Kay was really sick and my mom texted me one day and said Kay died today

2:11.5

and then she put the laughing so hard that you're crying emoji or tears of joy emoji and it

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