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🗓️ 29 March 2025
⏱️ 25 minutes
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0:00.0 | My entitled parents don't like my boyfriend simply because he isn't rich. |
0:04.3 | And they've even gone as far as saying that I'm going to be setting myself up for a life of financial struggle unless I dump them and move on. |
0:11.1 | And I'm now questioning everything about my life because right now I seriously don't know what to do. |
0:16.0 | Here's what happened. |
0:16.9 | I'm a 31 year old female and I've been dating my 28 year old boyfriend for four years and we are going to be moving in together in two weeks. |
0:23.6 | I am really excited as I've never taken this step before in a relationship and that's because I've lived alone since I was 24. |
0:29.6 | I have grown up very privileged and I'm very grateful for everything my parents have provided me. |
0:34.6 | But on the other hand, my boyfriend has grown up in a lower |
0:37.7 | income household. He has a full-time job managing a local coffee shop. He pays his bills and has |
0:43.1 | never asked me once for money. He has attempted secondary school, but he hasn't been successful. |
0:48.0 | And he knows that his current gig is not a forever thing. On the other hand, I am highly ambitious. |
0:52.5 | I'm a manager at a hospital with a pension |
0:54.9 | plan and all the adult things that come along with it. I'm also a waitress during the weekends to |
0:59.4 | earn some extra money. On top of that, I dog sit and cat sit, as well as dog walk for the doctors I |
1:04.7 | work with, as I am much cheaper than any kennel they could find, and I'm a huge animal lover. With all this extra income, I bought a |
1:11.5 | piece of land in cash last year. It's been almost five years of doing the two job thing, |
1:16.1 | and I've reached a level of burnout that I've never experienced before. I work nearly seven days |
1:20.8 | a week, and I've been thinking about quitting my part-time job as my boyfriend is moving in, |
1:25.3 | and he will be paying half the bills. I really want to get some |
1:28.0 | better work-life balance because my mental health is not good. I recently confided in my mom about the |
1:33.3 | burnout I'm experiencing and it was actually on my birthday last week and I showed up to my family |
1:38.4 | birthday party dinner in tears. I had to reschedule my own birthday party because I was called |
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