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Am I the Jerk?

Parents DEMAND that I DUMP MY BOYFRIEND because he's "TOO POOR"

Am I the Jerk?

youtube.com/amithejerk

Society & Culture, Relationships

4.82.7K Ratings

🗓️ 29 March 2025

⏱️ 25 minutes

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0:00.0

My entitled parents don't like my boyfriend simply because he isn't rich.

0:04.3

And they've even gone as far as saying that I'm going to be setting myself up for a life of financial struggle unless I dump them and move on.

0:11.1

And I'm now questioning everything about my life because right now I seriously don't know what to do.

0:16.0

Here's what happened.

0:16.9

I'm a 31 year old female and I've been dating my 28 year old boyfriend for four years and we are going to be moving in together in two weeks.

0:23.6

I am really excited as I've never taken this step before in a relationship and that's because I've lived alone since I was 24.

0:29.6

I have grown up very privileged and I'm very grateful for everything my parents have provided me.

0:34.6

But on the other hand, my boyfriend has grown up in a lower

0:37.7

income household. He has a full-time job managing a local coffee shop. He pays his bills and has

0:43.1

never asked me once for money. He has attempted secondary school, but he hasn't been successful.

0:48.0

And he knows that his current gig is not a forever thing. On the other hand, I am highly ambitious.

0:52.5

I'm a manager at a hospital with a pension

0:54.9

plan and all the adult things that come along with it. I'm also a waitress during the weekends to

0:59.4

earn some extra money. On top of that, I dog sit and cat sit, as well as dog walk for the doctors I

1:04.7

work with, as I am much cheaper than any kennel they could find, and I'm a huge animal lover. With all this extra income, I bought a

1:11.5

piece of land in cash last year. It's been almost five years of doing the two job thing,

1:16.1

and I've reached a level of burnout that I've never experienced before. I work nearly seven days

1:20.8

a week, and I've been thinking about quitting my part-time job as my boyfriend is moving in,

1:25.3

and he will be paying half the bills. I really want to get some

1:28.0

better work-life balance because my mental health is not good. I recently confided in my mom about the

1:33.3

burnout I'm experiencing and it was actually on my birthday last week and I showed up to my family

1:38.4

birthday party dinner in tears. I had to reschedule my own birthday party because I was called

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