Parents DEMAND I Break Up with my Girlfriend Because She has a CANCER GENE
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🗓️ 13 December 2024
⏱️ 25 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | My parents are forcing me to leave my girlfriend solely because she has a medical condition that would cause her to possibly have cancer in the future. |
| 0:08.0 | And now after giving me the ultimatum that if I don't leave her, they're going to kick me out of the family, I'm left wondering what the right move is, because at this point, I seriously don't know what to do. |
| 0:17.8 | Here's what happened. My girlfriend and I, who are both 25, have been together |
| 0:21.6 | for more than six years. We survived a long-distance relationship for the first three years, and had |
| 0:27.0 | an amazing relationship for the subsequent three years. She is my best friend, my closest confidant, |
| 0:32.7 | and we cannot imagine our lives without each other. We rarely ever argue and our personality |
| 0:37.3 | compliments each other, and our friends too and our personality complements each other. |
| 0:38.6 | And our friends too always said that we are a perfect couple. Essentially, she's the perfect one for me. |
| 0:44.1 | Initially, my parents loved her as well. They always showered her with gifts and really supported |
| 0:48.5 | us being together. In fact, my parents had been nagging us to get married soon. However, my girlfriend is the carrier of a gene |
| 0:55.8 | mutation, which basically means she has a higher risk of getting breast cancer and ovarian cancer |
| 1:01.1 | in the future. I am well aware of her condition, and I am ready to support her and walk with her |
| 1:06.4 | as her future husband. We planned everything we needed to do, such as getting IVF done to prevent |
| 1:12.2 | the gene from being passed down and her getting her breasts removed to prevent cancer from developing. |
| 1:17.6 | Well, unfortunately, I decided to tell my parents about my girlfriend's gene mutation, hoping |
| 1:22.6 | to get their understanding and support. However, they did not take it lightly. My mom threw a massive fit and demanded |
| 1:29.3 | me to leave my girlfriend immediately. Essentially, they don't want my girlfriend to be imperfect, |
| 1:34.0 | and they don't want me to potentially suffer from taking care of my girlfriend in the future, |
| 1:38.8 | such as bringing her to hospital appointments and all this other stuff. They also said that the |
| 1:43.4 | cost of IVF and her treatment |
| 1:45.4 | can be very expensive. My girlfriend had been really heartbroken because of this, but she is still |
| 1:50.9 | willing to put up with my parents if it means us getting married and being together. Today, my mom |
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