Parenting Psychologist REVEALS Top 3 Parenting MISTAKES DO THIS to RAISE Healthy KIDS! | Dr. Becky Kennedy EP 558

The Daily Motivation

Lewis Howes

Education, Self-improvement

4.8 • 893 Ratings

🗓️ 18 March 2024

⏱️ 7 minutes

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Dr. Becky Kennedy, often referred to as the millennial parenting whisperer, discusses the importance of parents focusing on their own emotional regulation and leadership skills rather than solely trying to "fix" their children's behaviors. She emphasizes the need for parents to understand resilience and tolerance of difficult situations, teaching them to intervene effectively by modeling healthy responses. Kennedy highlights the long-term impact of parental actions on a child's development, advocating for a shift in perspective from seeking convenience to embracing opportunities for growth and resilience building within family dynamics.

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0:00.0	Hi my name is Louis Howes and welcome to the Daily Motivation Show.
0:07.0	Hi magazine called
0:12.5	Co, The millennial parenting whisper.
0:14.8	I've had Caesar Milan, who's the dog whisper on.
0:17.5	You know, people come in to say, hey, how do you fix my dog?
0:20.3	And he fixes humans, essentially.
0:21.9	He teaches humans how to lead themselves better.
0:24.0	And it sounds like parents come to you and say,
0:26.0	how do I fix my kid?
0:27.0	And you're coming to them and saying,
0:28.0	well, you need to learn how to be a better leader
0:30.0	and heal and reprogram yourself
0:32.0	and learn how to regulate your emotions so you can manage these situations.
0:37.0	Would that be accurate?
0:38.0	That is completely accurate and I think you know I double down on that and say I think when we have kids we have this unconscious wish that our kids will heal us and in reality
0:46.4	our kids trigger us.
0:47.4	Why do we think our kids will heal us?
0:49.7	Because I think in general we all have the wish that something in the external world
0:56.7	something we can gaze out at will finally give us the comfort and the sense of
1:01.9	safety and security that we've always been yearning for.
1:04.7	And part of adulthood I think involves learning to gaze in, not from a place of it's my fault,
1:10.1	but from a place of actually like I have the power and it's hard but I have the power to do that myself.
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