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Parental Alienation

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BBC

News, Politics

4.6 • 1K Ratings

🗓️ 25 October 2021

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

Splitting up where children are involved is tricky. Especially when it ends up in the family courts. It’s even more tricky when a child decides they don’t want a relationship with one of the parents.

Over the last two decades a controversial psychological concept has emerged to describe a situation where children - for no apparent reason - decide they don’t want to see one parent. It’s called parental alienation.

Women’s rights organisations argue parental alienation is used to gaslight abused women. Fathers’ rights organisations claim that some mothers make up allegations of abuse to prevent them from seeing their children. And children are caught in the middle.

Sonia Sodha explores the polarizing concept of “parental alienation” and asks how a contested psychological theory has evolved into an increasingly common allegation in the UK family courts.

Producer: Gemma Newby

Transcript

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Hi, thanks for downloading analysis. In this episode... podcasts. happens when it collides with allegations of domestic abuse in the family courts.

0:55.0

Breaking up is never easy, but when children are involved things are more complicated,

1:00.0

parents splitting up on bad terms are long going to be in each other's lives.

1:05.0

There's no doubt that people who are angry and upset and emotional are not in the best place to present rationally the history of their relationship and why it broke down.

1:16.1

I see exaggeration on both sides.

1:20.0

The majority of parents who split up decide between themselves how much time their children spend with each parent and when.

1:28.0

But each year, thousands of parents who can't agree go to the family courts where magistrates and judges make those decisions for them.

1:37.0

And it's in the courts where an old, some might say fringe idea in psychotherapy has started to gain traction.

1:45.0

It's called parental alienation.

1:48.0

Its supporters say it's a form of child abuse.

1:52.0

It's critics that it's a way for abusive men to

1:55.3

silence their ex partners. And it's fast become one of the most contested

2:00.1

aspects of family law. It's something that has become, shall we say, a weapon in situations where

2:07.8

forensic evidence is called in.

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