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Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

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Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

JLML Press

Kids & Family, Parenting

4.73.8K Ratings

🗓️ 1 August 2023

⏱️ 25 minutes

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Summary

Kids seem to have a sixth sense when it comes to detecting our vulnerabilities as parents. And as adept learners and explorers, they can't help but keep pressing the buttons they discover in us. It can be easy for us to get stuck in an uncomfortable, unproductive cycle.

Janet shares two recent interactions she's had with friends who are concerned about disconcerting new tendencies they've noticed in their children. One parent says her daughter is portraying herself as a constant victim, blaming others for every mishap, even for her own errors and misdeeds. Another writes that when her son is in tantrum mode, she gently stops him from hitting and kicking, but afterwards, he complains that she is “pushing him.” He remains angry and shouts, “I don’t love you!”

Janet identifies the common thread that could be causing these parents to doubt themselves and describes several additional examples parents have shared with her that fit this pattern. She offers suggestions for understanding and approaching these situations in a manner that ultimately curtails them.

Janet's "No Bad Kids Master Course" is available at NoBadKidsCourse.com.

Her best-selling books “No Bad Kids: Toddler Discipline without Shame” and "Elevating Child Care: A Guide to Respectful Parenting" are available in all formats at Amazon, Apple, Barnes & Noble, Google Play, and free at Audible (https://adbl.co/2OBVztZ) with a trial subscription.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey, everyone. Before we begin, I just want to remind you to please check out my new

0:07.6

No Bad Kids Master course. You can find out all about it at NoBadKidsCourse.com.

0:18.4

Hi, this is Janet Lansbury. Welcome to Unruffold.

0:22.0

Today I'd like to share issues. Two different friends who our parents asked me about, and

0:29.8

the thoughts that I shared with them in response. Both of these touch on a very common area

0:36.2

that we can struggle with as parents. It's a kind of trap that we can easily fall into

0:42.8

out of all the love and care we feel for our children. And it's around one of my favorite

0:48.2

topics, which is our children's perceptiveness in regard to our thoughts and feelings. The

0:55.9

way they're always tuning in to us, and particularly, of course, when they sense we're sad or fearful

1:03.6

or even just a little bit off-balance, concerned or worried about them.

1:13.6

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