next time on dear alice the thing that like i think is really critical for a project to go well

is that they both gather images of what they are drawn to so we do what we call as a north star so

carly i want you to do a north star for you and your husband as you're trying to navigate your

styles and figure out how are we

going to blend all these together? Because I believe there's going to be more common denominators

than you think. Because once you look at pictures of rooms, if you were to put images that you

like in front of your husband, he might be like, oh, I don't like that. But then when you really

ask him, like, dissect what you don't like. And he can be like, I just don't like that sofa. I don't like

the color. And then you're like, okay, that's good to know. But do you like, do you like the wall

color? He's like, well, yeah. or the color purple or just things like that.

But when you start to actually look at images together, I think you're going to find more

commonalities than you think you have.

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