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Honestly with Bari Weiss

Pain, Wisdom and Mercy

Honestly with Bari Weiss

The Free Press

Society & Culture, News

4.67.8K Ratings

🗓️ 19 October 2021

⏱️ 89 minutes

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Summary

Ross Douthat is a New York Times columnist, a father of four, an author . . . and also someone who lives with a tremendous amount of pain. Ross has been battling chronic Lyme disease since 2015. It's a disease that doesn’t officially exist, but it managed to bring this otherwise healthy man to his knees. This is a conversation about something we all have or will experience: pain. How pain can distort, but also how it can clarify and humanize. In Ross's telling, pain has proven a deeply powerful teacher.  Ross is one of my favorite thinkers and writers, so we also covered some of his core topics: Catholicism, populism, the future of the political right and left, the internet, and, of course, decadence. You can buy his new book, "The Deep Places," here: https://www.amazon.com/Deep-Places-Memoir-Illness-Discovery-ebook/dp/B08Y1BFFWC Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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I'm Barry Weiss and this is honestly.

0:34.0

I want you to think about all of the things that you worry about in a typical day.

0:42.0

Traffic, running late. worry about

0:45.0

how you look, the anger that gets stoked when you check social media apps.

0:51.0

The day in and day out annoyances that you feel toward the people in your life, even people you love,

0:57.0

your spouse leaving their socks on the floor.

1:00.0

Maybe there's some drama at work that can feel so big in the moment.

1:05.0

And now I want you to think about the last time that you were in serious pain.

1:11.0

Maybe it was a throbbing serious pain.

1:16.0

Maybe it was a throbbing toothache.

1:21.0

Maybe it was a cramp in your stomach that had you doubled over. Maybe it was a headache that made you hide from the light. Think

1:28.3

about if that pain was suddenly back right now and about how in that pain all of those previous negative feelings and

1:37.1

annoyances are revealed for what they really were all along.

1:40.9

Nitz, frivolous, and beside the point.

1:48.8

Pain can be very clarifying, it can be humanizing, and as awful as it is, pain can be a powerful teacher.

1:57.0

Today I'm speaking with the man who has earned my vote for the best columnist at the New York Times

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