Coach, it's really hard to implement X-back principles as I messed it up a couple of times. Any tips to hold it together? Yeah, that's emotional self-control. That's, you know, it's like a wall of fear you got to get past because the fear, the fear of loss, fear that you're not enough, fear that you won't be loved.'s like that silence wondering is she going to come back

am i going to hear from her again and especially if it's one of those type of women that knocks

your socks off the kind that i'd say you know you only come along every one to one to three of those a

decade and when you lose one like that and you're think man the last time i met somebody that i felt

that way about and i felt that way about me five years ago the thought of waiting another five years or seven years or three

years or six months or whatever that's not a pleasant thought and so as a man you you know we're

driven to take action you want to do something to fix that in reality, it's if she dumped you and tossed you aside or friend zoned you,

she fucked it up.

Therefore, she's got to fix it.

And since she's got to be the one to fix it, then she's got to be the one to reach out.

And another reason for going to no context is you want her to experience

life without you completely. You're going to completely disappear from her life. And if she doesn't

reach out to you, you guys will never speak again as long as you live. And so it's powerful. But

at the end of the day, you're the one with the penis. You penetrate a woman with your strength. And so you've got to be able to hold out longer than the woman can. And if you can't do that, then that means you're still acting like a bitch. You've got to act like a man. You've got to be willing to go the distance. And the right thing to do is to accept that you'll probably never hear for her again and it's totally over

And you need to move on with your life

Say you don't I mean we're yesterday there was a guy

He hadn't heard from his girlfriend was like two years was it

His ex she just got back in touch after two years and they just hooked up

and I've had clients tell me that they've had women from seven to ten years before that they fucked up with

and chased out of their lives come back in their lives seven to ten years later so and by that point you know

most of the time you leveled up significantly you often

don't even want that that woman anymore but it's something you have to get over because if you don't

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