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Magical Overthinkers

Overthinking About Weddings

Magical Overthinkers

Amanda Montell & Studio71

Education, Science, Society & Culture

4.3636 Ratings

🗓️ 5 March 2025

⏱️ 54 minutes

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Summary

Weddings! They’re supposed to be the "happiest day of your life"... so why do they inspire so much stress, scrutiny, and existential dread? From the absurd cost to the vague standards of "tradition" to the social politics and not-so-subtly gendered pressure to make every detail deeply personal yet universally beloved, modern weddings are a minefield of overthinking. Should one cave to family expectations or take on the creative labor of reimagining the modern wedding from the ground up? Why does the term "bridezilla" feel like a trap? Is throwing a big shebang just consumerist narcissism? And why do we judge people so hard for how they choose to celebrate their partnership?To help untangle these nuptial-flavored thought spirals, host Amanda Montell (@amanda_montell) is joined by author, mental health advocate, and longtime wedding overthinker Allison Raskin (@allisonraskin), whose sharp, heartfelt takes on marriage make her the perfect guest for this topic. Together, they unpack the evolving culture of weddings and how to take control of your own matrimonial destiny. Further Reading: I Do (I Think): Conversations About Modern Marriage by Allison Raskin - Join the "Magical Overthinkers Club" by following the pod on Instagram @magicaloverthinkers. - To access early, ad-free episodes and more, subscribe to the Magical Overthinkers Substack. - Pick up a hard copy of Amanda's book The Age of Magical Overthinking: Notes on Modern Irrationality, or listen to the audiobook. Thanks to Our Sponsors: Stop putting off those doctors appointments and go to https://Zocdoc.com/MAGICAL to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. Go to https://GreenChef.com/magicalfree and use code magicalfree to get started with FREE Salads for two months plus 50% off your first box. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

If you are listening to and even enjoying this episode of the podcast and want to go deeper,

0:05.5

I have a book recommendation for you. This is your host, Amanda, by the way, and the book is called

0:10.9

The Age of Magical O overthinking, and I wrote it. I poured my heart into this book, and I really

0:16.6

think you might like it. It's about delusion and obsession in the information age and how the ways

0:22.0

in which our minds naturally work are clashing with our current culture. Every chapter explores

0:27.2

some confounding irrationality from contemporary society, including extreme cycles of celebrity

0:32.9

worship and dethronement, mass embrace of Instagram manifestation gurus during times of crisis,

0:39.5

and why our bodies sometimes enter literal fight or flight in response to something

0:43.8

is objectively non-threatening as a curt email from a coworker. The book blends social science

0:48.9

with pop culture analysis and personal stories. And if you prefer audiobooks, I recorded mine myself. So it's kind of like

0:55.6

an extension of the podcast. Again, the book is called The Age of Magical Overtinking, Notes on

1:00.9

Modern Irrationality, and it's available wherever books are sold, your local indie bookstore,

1:05.9

bookshop.org, Barnes & Noble, or even that one massive online book retailer run by a coal leader.

1:12.6

You know the one.

1:13.3

So if you enjoy this podcast, I really hope you'll consider checking out the book.

1:23.1

Welcome to The Magical O'Rthinkers podcast, a show for thought spirulers, exploring the subjects we can't stop overthinking about.

1:32.0

From burnout to crushes.

1:35.0

If you can relate to the feeling that despite living in the information age, the world only seems to be making less sense,

1:42.3

if you can connect to the idea that for some mysterious reason,

1:47.0

it just feels especially hard to exist as a human in the world right now,

1:52.4

then you're in the right place.

1:54.3

This podcast is here to help us think less about the things that don't matter

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