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The Slumflower Hour

OVERCOMING THE FEAR OF ASKING MEN FOR STUFF

The Slumflower Hour

W!ZARD Studios

Education, Self-improvement

4.9549 Ratings

🗓️ 11 October 2024

⏱️ 80 minutes

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Summary

Do you feel like you 'owe' men sex for a cocktail? Does the 'gold digger' label scare you away from being upfront about your needs? Are you playing to win or are you playing to be fair? In this episode, join Chidera as she dilutes your fears of asking men for things, and chats through the ridiculousness of male entitlement! Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

We're going to be discussing overcoming the fear of asking for things, because this seems to be

0:06.9

quite a recurring response I get from women when I discuss things like, oh, men buy new gifts,

0:14.7

or asking a man to help you out with something or requesting that a guy carries out an errand for you,

0:23.0

there's this constant question I get from women who very well meaningly asked me,

0:28.7

how, but how do you get a guy to do that?

0:31.0

Most times I get this response when I share on my stories the screenshots of anonymous messages you guys send me on Instagram

0:41.1

talking about all the wonderful things that have happened since you started applying the ideas that I share

0:46.9

into your lives and into your interactions with men and the incredible results you're getting.

0:53.4

It's so amazing to see how this happens for women across the world, across age groups.

1:00.4

You know, I've had some women tell me that they, after listening to my work, parted ways

1:06.8

with their toxic draining baby father.

1:11.2

And then a year later, or even two years later, in this case, two years later,

1:17.6

this lovely lady met a guy who was a complete gentleman, very kind,

1:24.1

he was financially secure and generous and caring essentially all the traits that she found

1:31.1

valuable in a partner and she has got it with that guy and he's not only been financially

1:37.4

supporting her he's also been very supportive and involved in her child's life even though

1:43.3

she had the child of a different man.

1:45.6

So that's one of the incredible things that I've heard, or another thing that I've heard from

1:50.4

women who listen to my work and apply in their lives is a woman telling me that she's got

1:56.8

two guys in rotation, and it's her birthday, and both guys have sent her gift cards but as a

2:05.8

birthday gift which is incredible because this particular woman she used to struggle a lot with

2:11.9

the idea of grasping the concept of dating more than one guy you know know, a lot of women who listen to my work,

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