Hey Jim Daley here. If you like the focus on the family broadcast and haven't

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podcast. In the Bible in the New Testament book First Corinthians the Apostle

Paul encouraged married couples not to neglect having sex on a frequent basis

and the truth is of course that your sex life is very important but it can

also be complicated and we have some help for you today. I'm John Fuller along

here with my focus colleagues and friends Greg and Aaron Smiley and Greg in the

professional marriage counseling you've done. I offer some observations about

those different expectations that most of us probably have in marriage. Yeah

that's normal to have them because we see this constantly even the marriage

assessment that we do over a million people have taken this in sex is the

number one struggle that couples experience especially around how often that

we will be having sex usually a big mismatch in desire or frequency it just

creates so much conflict. I remember watching a movie one time and this

therapist is kind of separately interviewing the husband and the wife just

around sex and so first this therapist asked the husband you know how how often

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