You're going to be. Hello and welcome to Outward Slait's most happily queer infested

podcast I'm Ryan Lauter and editor at Slate We're back this week with another round of advice for all of our beloved

LGBT QTs out there. Thanks to those of you who send in letters. That was really great to see in our inbox this week.

Listeners, please follow that example and send us more.

We're going to be doing this regularly.

So the more of your problems, whether they're low stakes or high drama,

the more useful and maybe sometimes even entertaining I don't know this will be as

always we love to hear your voices so send voice memos if you can but letters are also

okay send those to outward podcast at slate.

com. Okay, today I'm joined by two excellent co-advisors. The first is Danny

library who you already know but just in case with Slate's Deputants from 2016 to 2021, and just generally

a sage about the internet, I would say.

And we also have my wonderful Slate audio colleague and writer, Madeline Ducharm, who is a producer on site's excellent daily news show,

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Hey, everybody, how are you doing?

I'm good. It's snowing, it's beautiful. Hey everybody. How are you doing?

I'm good. It's snowing. It's beautiful out.

It is snowing.

I'm thrilled to be here. I'm a long time listener of both Outward and

Slates advice podcasts and the advice universe so I'm excited to be

The advice universe yeah Danny how are you I'm doing great I also like I feel like the last couple of years every year we get

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