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Outward: Slate's LGBTQ podcast - 2: A New Gospel for Gay Sinners | When We All Get to Heaven

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🗓️ 15 October 2025

⏱️ 57 minutes

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Summary

Why would an out queer person in the Gay Liberation Days of the 1970s go to church? What church would they go to? And why would they stay? In the 1960s, and ‘70s, the separation between God and gays was not as vast as it seemed. Rev. Troy Perry started the first Metropolitan Community Church in his Los Angeles living room. Tired of flying to LA every week, a Navy veteran started the second one in a San Francisco gay bar. And the Metropolitan Community Church of San Francisco was there for a young lesbian as she navigated spirituality, coming out, and her increasingly conservative family. When her friend got sick, she tried to be there for him. Church helped.      

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Production credits: 

When We All Get to Heaven is produced by Eureka Street Productions. It is co-created by Lynne Gerber, Siri Colom, and Ariana Nedelman. Our story editor is Sayre Quevedo. Our sound designer is David Herman. Our managing producer is Krissy Clark. Tim Dillinger is our consulting producer and Betsy Towner Levine is our fact-checker. We had additional story editing help from Sarah Ventre, Arwen Nicks, Allison Behringer, and Krissy Clark. For a complete list of credits, please visit http://heavenpodcast.org/credits.

This project received generous support from individual donors, the Henry Luce Foundation (www.hluce.org), the E. Rhodes and Leona B. Carpenter Foundation, and California Humanities, a non-profit partner of the National Endowment for the humanities (www.CalHum.org).

Eureka Street Productions has 501c3 status through our fiscal sponsor FJC: A Foundation of Philanthropic Funds.

The music for this episode is from the Metropolitan Community Church of San Francisco’s archive. It was performed by MCC-SF’s musicians and members with Bob Crocker and Jack Hoggatt-St.John as music directors. Additional music is by Tasty Morsels. 

Thanks to


Great thanks, as always, to the members and clergy of the Metropolitan Community Church of San Francisco who made this project possible.


Some links to good groups:

The Metropolitan Community Church of San Francisco – the congregation’s current website. 

Metropolitan Community Churches – the denomination of which MCC San Francisco is a part. 

San Francisco AIDS Foundation – a place to seek information about HIV. 

POZ Magazine – a place to learn everything else about HIV (information included).

Save AIDS Research – their recent, epic 24 hours to Save Research conference with all the latest HIV research is available on YouTube through this site.   

LGBTQ Religious Archives Network – the place to get lost in LGBTQ+ religious history.


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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hi, I'm Christina Cotarucci, and this is Outward, Slate's show about queer life, culture, and politics.

0:10.1

We explore the stories and histories that shape our lives and the way those stories echo across time.

0:16.5

We've been off the air for a little while, but we're back with something completely new.

0:20.7

It's a series called When We All Get to Heaven, built from an extraordinary archive of voices, music, and moments that have never been heard before, created by the team at Eureka Street Productions.

0:33.1

It's a 10-part series, and you'll definitely want to start at the beginning.

0:36.7

So if you're just joining us, go back and listen to Part 1, where you'll listen in on a music-filled

0:42.1

communion service from 1993, led by Reverend Jim Matulski.

0:46.6

It's heartbreaking and beautiful.

0:49.2

In this episode, Part 2, you'll also hear the story of an early congregant who talks about what it was like to be a young lesbian with questions about religion in the late 1970s and the home that MCC San Francisco offered her. She also shares the story of how she and the church first confronted AIDS, giving us a window into a community that held each other through grief, fear, and uncertainty.

1:13.7

This is when we all get to heaven.

1:34.3

Thank you. Now, I can tell you about that first service. I would you like me to?

1:36.3

I would love that.

1:39.3

That's Connie Staff, telling me about the first time she visited the Metropolitan Community Church of San Francisco.

1:46.0

That first service was really wonderful. We walked in, we looked around, and we saw men.

2:03.6

There were a few women, four, maybe.

2:07.6

So Diane and I almost walked out

2:12.6

because while it was very welcoming,

2:16.6

it was a sea of men. That's how I've always described it. it was a sea of men.

2:18.5

That's how I've always described it.

2:20.1

It was a sea of men.

2:24.5

Connie and Diane, who was Connie's partner at the time,

2:28.2

first went to MCC in 1980.

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