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I remember when I was in high school. I had these pair of shoes that I wore all the time.

Cotton candy color high heels that were with most of my outfits. I felt good when I wore them.

And besides, those shoes made it through a lot of crazy parties with me too.

So I was getting dressed to go out one day after not wearing my heels in a while.

I put them on and they ain't really fitting on me.

I squeezed my feet right into them anyway and within an hour, the back of my goddamn feet were hurting so bad.

I felt like I couldn't even breathe my feet wasn't so much pain.

I had a few other nights just like that one.

And it's funny now that I look back on it because I had so many other shoes that was much nicer, more comfortable.

Someone should have smacked me up side of my head and said, you've outgrown them since.

Then the only question left, I would have to ask will be, are we talking about shoes or are we talking about friendships?

Welcome back to self-care and chill with Maui.

That is an excerpt from, I believe, my first book, The Lotus Wine.

Outgrown your friends and outgrown your surroundings in different situations.

So that's what we are going to talk about today. Now that we're walking into this new year, we're changing so many things about ourselves, we're more focused, we're learning who we are.

We're going to realize that a lot of shit that we was tolerating before or a lot of things that we was cool with or a lot of people that fit into the picture may not go anymore.

We may not be on the same page.

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