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Our Romance Lost It’s Spark & We’ve Become Platonic Roommates. How To Get It Back?

Coach Corey Wayne

Coach Corey Wayne

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.6532 Ratings

🗓️ 18 April 2023

⏱️ 19 minutes

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Summary

How to turn a failing relationship around after the romantic spark is gone and you’ve become platonic roommates.


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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne and this is my video coaching newsletter and the topic of today's

0:05.7

newsletter is going to be our romance lost its spark and we become platonic roommates.

0:11.8

How to get it back.

0:13.7

I've got an email.

0:14.8

This is from a guy.

0:15.9

He says he's been following my work for about eight years and he says he's read 3% man close to 20 times and he says his

0:24.0

relationship of three years lost at spark and so it appears that when he started dating this girl

0:31.1

because he says they moved in together during all the lockdown and so we're like three years

0:35.4

outside and when all that happened. So what it looks

0:39.1

like is he started dating this girl and moved in with her right away. And he says for the past

0:44.4

year and a half, he's the one that's always initiating sex. And they only have sex every one to two

0:50.8

months. And then he says when he tries to talk to her about the fact that she's

0:55.6

not making a mutual effort, she just shuts down. And it sounds like he just gives up. So as we,

1:01.2

I'll go through this email with you, it looks like he's just completely abdicated any leadership

1:05.7

role and responsibility for the relationship. Because a man's job in the courtship is simply to create an opportunity for sex to happen, to hang out, to have fun while you're hanging out, and to hook up when the signs are there that she's ready to be touched and seduced.

1:21.7

And when a woman feels heard and understood, the legs open, and when she doesn't, the legs close.

1:26.4

And so if a year and a half ago he just gave up

1:28.7

on trying to open her up he shouldn't be surprised that she doesn't want to have sex with him

1:33.7

because as he said in the beginning she was initiating it constantly so it sounds like he got

1:38.1

into a relationship with a girl who had really high interest and then he got lazy and complacent

1:43.4

and didn't do what the book instructs

1:46.0

to maintain it. You can't be a year and a half later and just say, oh, well, she shuts down

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