So I was thinking about this the other day, because like I said, and we've been saying it a lot.

My episode with Dami is coming out on Tuesday, but it had been out for a while by the time this episode goes live.

And we were basically talking about the fact that I've never been in a relationship and he was asking me why. And I was like, we, I explained that we had had that episode that we did on Patreon, like, why am I still single and how we've identified that? Some of the things that I, like, want to know before I get into a relationship people are wondering about that stuff

while staying in the relationship before they move to marriage I suppose so I thought about it

today and I thought what are some of those questions that I actually like want to know answers to

and I want to get you guys's opinion on whether or not you would go into a relationship not

not knowing this information or not right I thought it was a good idea.

Cool.

Number one, gender roles.

So, like, basically how he would want his house to run.

Like, does he have specific gender roles about whether or not the woman should be, like, the sole cook in the house and the man is the soul bread winner, that kind of stuff?

Is that something that you're happy to, figure it out whilst you're in a relationship

or would you want to know that stuff before?

Yeah, I'm notable.

Okay.

And if you're dissatisfied with the answer, that could prevent you from moving forward.

Okay, fantastic.

Money habits.

So like whether he's a spender or a saver, if he has any savings, if he's like, yeah, if he's frugal or not.

I think my opinion on this has changed.

I think I need to know before, now at the age that I am, I need to know about it before I go

into, before I'm like saying, like, yeah, I want to date you properly, like properly. Okay, but before it wasn't necessarily. Yeah, before it wasn't as deep to me. I didn't even have anything to my name so I didn't really, I couldn't really be shouting. I couldn't have anything to my name. But now that I do, I think that, yeah, I would want to know. But I guess the extent of it, I don't know. Would I be asking for evidence?

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