Our Husbands Give You Their Best Dating Advice

For The Girl

Mac Bridges & Kenz Durham

Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.9 • 1.2K Ratings

🗓️ 24 February 2026

⏱️ 57 minutes

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Okayyyy this one was FUN. 💌 In the spirit of our Valentine’s series, we brought in the real experts — our husbands — to answer your dating questions. And let’s just say… they did not hold back. From slow texters and “is he into me?” confusion, to crushes that might be idols (yikes 😅), to dating your ex’s best friend (double yikes??), we covered it all. We talked about insecurity, confidence, communication, rejection, equal yoking, and what healthy pursuit actually looks like. The boys shared honestly about what it means to pursue with clarity, why you should never have to guess how a guy feels about you, and how important community and character really are. If you’re dating, thinking about dating, healing from dating, or just trying to not overthink dating — this episode is for you. We laughed a lot and hopefully left you feeling a little more confident, a little more grounded, and a lot more at peace. In This Episode [00:00] Welcome to the Valentine’s Series + Meet the Husbands [00:01:00] The Snowstorm Valentine’s First Date Story [00:04:00] Valentine’s Expectations in Marriage [00:08:00] Situation #1: Slow Texting & Mixed Signals [00:16:45] Situation #2: The Social Media “Celebrity” Crush [00:19:30] When a Crush Becomes an Idol [00:25:45] Situation #3: “Unequally Yoked” or Just Uncertain? [00:31:00] Is It Fear of Commitment or Just Not Right? [00:33:20] Situation #4: He Flirts But Says He’s Not Ready to Date [00:37:45] Situation #5: Liking Your Ex’s Best Friend [00:42:20] Writing Out What You’re Actually Looking For [00:44:30] What Healthy Dating Actually Looks Like (Tyler’s Advice) [00:51:00] Being Fully Yourself in Dating [00:53:30] Different Love Stories, Same Faithfulness Delight Ministries Looking for a Delight Chapter near you? Check out⁠⁠⁠ Delightministries.com⁠⁠⁠ to find one. If there's not one near you, and you want to help start one, ⁠⁠⁠let us know⁠⁠⁠! We would love to talk. ⁠⁠⁠ORDER OUR NEW STUDY!⁠⁠⁠⁠ This seven-week, verse-by-verse study through the book of Acts invites you to embrace the unpredictable, sometimes challenging adventure of Spirit-led living that characterized the early church. Thanks to Our Sponsors ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Winshape⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Learn more or submit your application today⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! If you’d like to partner with For The Girl as a sponsor, fill out our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Advertise With Us⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ form! Follow us! 📸Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/forthegirl___ https://www.instagram.com/macleighbridges/ https://www.instagram.com/kenzraedurham/ Subscribe! 🍏⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🎧⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📹⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Youtube⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Hey, Forth the Girl, Sam. Welcome back to the For The Girl podcast. We're so excited
0:14.5	you're listening here. We're in the middle of what we like to call a Valentine series.
0:17.9	It's really unofficially that, but we are giving you all-boy
0:21.7	dating things, you know? So today's episode, we are, you guys submitted your dating situations,
0:29.1	situations, and we are giving you our best advice. And by we, I mean, are significant others.
0:38.8	We have some special guests on this episode.
0:41.3	Tyler Bridges, say hey, and introduce yourself.
0:45.3	I just realized that this is a monumental time for, it's fitting that I join
0:51.0	the For the Girl podcast around Valentine's Day because. Oh, yes, this is when we met, when we met, five podcast around Valentine's Day.
0:54.4	Oh, yes.
0:55.1	This is when we met five years Valentine's Day.
0:58.5	It's really a testimony.
0:59.9	My Fourth of Girl testimony.
1:01.4	For anybody who doesn't know, tell them your guys is Valentine's testimony.
1:07.8	It was a snowstorm, Nashville.
1:13.2	Well, don't forget about single ladies night posted by for the girl.
1:17.4	But that was before Valentine's Day.
1:19.7	Yeah, we met through single ladies night for the girl.
1:23.7	And then we FaceTimed.
1:27.4	FaceTime and then our first date was on Valentine's Day.
1:31.0	Yeah, in a snowstorm.
1:32.9	What was involved in the date, Tyler?
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