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We're about to hear from Alexandra Frost.

Alexandra is here to share how she and her husband figured out how to keep a spotless home with four sons,

with what they call the 10 Things Rule.

I know you're curious.

I am, and I have one daughter.

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We have four sons.

They are seven, five, three, and we have a three month old,

and people always ask us if we are, quote,

trying for a girl. And I'm like, well, clearly data has shown that's not in the cards, but we're

not sure if we're done having kids or are going to have more, but we're having a lot of fun with

having our four sons. Their ages are kind of fun because they're close together, so they're

really good friends, and they enjoy hanging out with each other, and they also wrestle and, you know, act crazy at times, but there's always some action going on.

Right at the beginning of our marriage, we had our first son, and it was very chaotic. We had a lot of baby toys around. We had a dog and a cat at the time.

There were pet toys around. So there was just crap all over the floor basically all the time.

It was chaos in the beginning, but we knew we kind of wanted to live that way and have a lot of kids and a lot of commotion and a lot of fun together.

After the third one, we lived in a smaller starter home, and we had three people's worth of stuff, plus my husband's and my stuff everywhere, and it just felt very cluttered. My husband will admit he's got a touch OCD for sure. You know, messes like that, toy messes didn't ever really bother me. I'm like, oh, we have a lot of kids. They like to play.

They're having fun, enjoying their childhood. But they would definitely get under his skin and he would feel kind of stressed in his home environment, which, you know, nobody wants to feel that way. So we had to get a little smarter with organizing. We tried different things like I would walk around at night and pick things up for everybody or my husband and I would do that and it, you know, it was a lot for any one person to take care of all these

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