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The Dr. Laura Podcast

Our 21-year-old Isn't Being an Adult

The Dr. Laura Podcast

Dr. Laura Schlessinger & SiriusXM

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4.66.3K Ratings

🗓️ 12 October 2021

⏱️ 13 minutes

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Our 21-year-old Isn't Being an Adult - David is frustrated with his stepson who isn't respecting the house rules and with his wife who isn't willing to push her adult son out of the nest. - Dr. Laura: "Stepparents who try to parent stepchildren can cause a true rift." - How do you handle discipline of your stepchildren? Email me your thoughts at: drlaura@drlaura.com | To participate on the radio program; call 1-800-Dr-Laura / 1-800-375-2872 or make an appointment - https://www.drlaura.com/make-an-appointment. Become a Dr. Laura Family Member: https://www.drlaura.com/ See https://www.drlaura.com/privacy-policy for privacy information.

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Hi, Dr. Laura. Thank you for taking my call. Thank you. What can I do? My question for you today is

1:01.7

my wife and I are considering what to do about our 21-year-old son, our youngest, all the other kids

1:08.0

are up and out and being adults. He is currently living with us. He has been since about March or April

1:14.2

this year. He unsuccessfully tried to navigate about, you know, almost three years of college.

1:21.2

And since about May, has been habitually smoking marijuana and working a job but staying out late,

1:30.8

sleeping late, and we almost never saw him. And we tried to put a stop to that, put some house rules

1:38.4

in place, you know, what it took for him to continue living with us primarily of no substances and

1:44.0

being responsible and making good decisions. But things got better, but recently he started

1:52.1

another job and has kind of relapsed back into that old habit and lifestyle. And he's, you know,

2:02.1

we're thinking of maybe he needs to get out of the house and start adulting and learning to

2:07.5

how to do it on his own. Until one of you decided, oh, but he'll be so sad and unhappy and he may not

2:13.6

be able to function and will be bad parents because it won't really work, right?

2:19.6

No, really he's been treated with medication for anxiety and depression.

2:28.8

Oh, that's what I just said. Yeah, well, everybody has anxiety and depression these days.

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