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Alright guys, so we're going to get into sex in the news. I'm going to be answering your calls today, which I love that. But first, I just wanted to share something that happened to me this weekend. Let me know if you can relate.

So Ben, my boyfriend, has been mentioning a few times. He's like, can you just dress up babe? If you've launched your anything, they'd be so hot and sexy. And I've got to be honest, I have not made the effort lately at all. I mean, I'm human. I'm just like you. I want to dress up and do something sexy.

But if you just come over or watch a movie, you know, so much easier to wear sweats at the end of the day.

But I knew that we were going out that night and I talked to myself like this is the night I'm going to put on these lingerie and the garters, that whole thing because that's what I have and that's what he likes. And I'm going to do it.

I was so lucky because my stylist friend was over. My friend is about and she was over and she had my guess what I'm going to dress up like said, but I got to put these garters on because we're going to movie. I want to put it under my clothes and she's like, well, I can never clip those goddamn little garters into the pantyhose and she's like, I used to style playboy models.

Let me help you, which how fortuitous is that? So we go in my room and she's like, you guys, you should have a friend come with you next time you're trying to put this stuff on because she was like, where I'm up to you. She was like, give me little tips of like, how to wear the bottoms, how to like judge my boobs up. And then she was like, here's how we clip the pantyhose and into the garters, which they'd never looked so straight and so perfect.

And then I was like, okay, we're going to go to a movie. I'm going to throw on some jeans and some boots and I felt like I felt sexy. I felt really good. I hadn't worn this stuff in a while. And the doorbell rings and he was running late and he's like, you know what, babe, I think you should just like, why don't you slip in something like slip on some sweats and let's go watch TV in my house because we didn't have as much time.

So then I like choked, I go in my room and I'm like, under this, he's like, let's go. We got to, you know, we wanted to go back to his house and get you started reading. I'm like, oh my God, what do I do?

Like, I've got these garters. You guys know, it's the pantyhose. I've got like feet stick. I put the pantyhose sticking out from the bottom of my jeans. And if I'm thinking I could put on sweats, but then that's weird. Like sweats and tennis shoes and pantyhose. Like, that's not sexy.

But I just did it because I like to be comfortable. I threw my sweats, I threw my pantyhose. I strut over to his house with them and we get there.

And we sit on his couch and he we start talking and we get into this whole relationship talk. And it was intense and it was long. And I start to sweat because I am wearing sweat pants with pantyhose underneath it.

But I'm also sweating because I'm wearing my tennis shoes and I don't want to take them off and have just my black feet, my black feet sticking out with the pantyhose on them. That's not hot. That's anti out. That's like, why are you wearing pantyhose? Like, this is very strange. Like, do you work in politics? When I worked in politics, they made your pantyhose. Like, what the hell? That's sexy.

So then we're talking and he's like, you should take your shoes off. So I take my shoes off, but I like, I tucked my feet underneath my stomach, sitting on them.

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