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Oprah's Super Soul

Oprah and Dr. Gary Chapman: The Five Love Languages

Oprah's Super Soul

Oprah

Society & Culture

4.632.9K Ratings

🗓️ 20 November 2019

⏱️ 22 minutes

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Summary

Oprah talks with Dr. Gary Chapman, author of the New York Times best-selling book The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts. Oprah learns her love language and Dr. Chapman explains how knowing your partner’s love language can transform your relationship. Couples across the country demonstrate how this concept brought their marriages back from the brink of divorce. Plus, The View co-host Elisabeth Hasselbeck, one of Dr. Chapman's biggest fans, explains how the book changed her marriage.

Transcript

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0:00.0

I'm Oprah Winfrey. Welcome to Super Soul Conversations, the podcast. I believe that one of

0:07.5

the most valuable gifts you can give yourself is time, taking time to be more fully present.

0:16.1

Your journey to become more inspired and connected to the deeper world around us starts right

0:23.1

now.

0:24.1

Dr. Gary Chapman is our teacher tonight. He's the man who says that he has discovered the secret

0:31.3

to lasting love. I got to say my staff has been telling me about the five love languages for years.

0:37.1

I've seen it over and over on the best sellers list and I just want to jump right in. So where

0:44.1

did this whole idea come from?

0:46.1

You know, Oprah, I have been counseling probably for 15 years and I knew I was hearing the same

0:50.6

stories over and over and over and over again. One would say, I feel like my spouse doesn't

0:57.9

love me and the other would say, I don't know why I do this and this and this. Why don't they

1:03.2

feel love?

1:04.2

Yeah.

1:05.2

And I knew there was a pattern, but I didn't know what it was. So what I did was go through 12 years

1:10.3

of notes that I made when I was counseling.

1:13.8

Yes.

1:14.8

And I asked myself the question, when someone said, I feel like my spouse doesn't love me.

1:19.9

What did they want? What were they complaining about?

1:22.5

Yeah.

1:23.5

And their answers fell in five categories and I'll later call them the five love languages.

1:27.1

Our audience is split down the middle. Half have read Dr. Chapman's book and say that

1:31.4

their marriages and relationships have never been hotter, healthier or happier. And the

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