Today I talk with a man who needs no introduction Mr. Jordan Harbinger with the art of charm.

We talk about the power of finding coaches in your life to develop new skills, how to be

a better networker, and why building relationships is the most valuable skill set you need to learn.

This is who you are. This is who you will become. At the end of the day and after all is said and done, you can call yourself a man.

Welcome to the Order of Man podcast guys. My name is Ryan McClure. I am the host and the founder of Order of Man. Glad that you're here with us today.

Now I was really listening to this show with Jordan Harbinger and I knew I knew it was good when we recorded it, but going through it again, this might be just one of my favorite episodes to date.

Jordan and I have a real conversation. No punches pulled about why finding coaches in your life is so powerful, how you can be a better networker, and why as Jordan puts it developing relationships is by far the most valuable skill set. Every successful person has.

I'm going to leave you hanging on that for just a minute though while I give a big shout out to BB1Shawth. He had this to say about the show.

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In fact, I think we're closer right now to 1100 members last week on the group we talked about how to deal with bullying, how to help a family member who's an addict, and how you can improve your journey becoming the best man you can be.

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Now all the show notes, the links, the quotes, you can find all of those at Order of Man.com slash 034. Now let me introduce you to our guest Jordan Harbinger.

He's always had an affinity for what he calls social influence, interpersonal dynamics and social engineering. In fact, he's been helping private companies test the security of their communication systems and working with law enforcement agencies before he was even old enough to drive.

He spent several years abroad. He speaks several languages. He's worked for various governments and non-governmental agencies overseas. He's traveled through war zones. He's actually been kidnapped twice and he'll be the first to tell you that the only reason he's alive and kicking is because his ability to talk his way into and out of just about any situation.

And we're going to put those skills to the test today. Jordan, thanks for joining us, man. I'm glad to have you on the show today.

Thanks for having me on. I appreciate it.

So my first question is tell me a little bit about what some of the topics you cover because I think there's sometimes a big disconnect between where you guys started with solely relationship and dating advice to covering the, you know, the broad spectrum of what you guys do now.

So I want to know what you guys cover when it comes to art of charm and what you guys are doing.

Sure. We cover everything from networking for business to relationship development to dating relationships. Basically anything that will make you better as a person.

And we're into it. The only exceptions we have are kind of fitness. I like biohacking, but I stay away from fitness because the stuff that works. It changes here and there.

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