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The Daily Dad

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Society & Culture, Dads, Relationships, Parenting, Self-improvement, Kids & Family, Ryan Holiday, Wisdom, Education, Fatherhood

4.8602 Ratings

🗓️ 3 November 2020

⏱️ 2 minutes

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Summary

"The Spartan Agesilaus was the toughest of the tough. Like all Spartans, he had been trained in the agoge to be courageous and self-disciplined and beyond fear and pain. He was capable of incredible feats in battle and was in peak physical condition. As a Spartan king, he was all these things and more. 

 But he was also a father, and as you know, that changes you."

Ryan describes the changes that come from being a father on today's Daily Dad Podcast.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Daily Dad podcast where we provide one lesson every day to help you with your

0:14.1

most important job being a dad. These are lessons inspired by ancient philosophy, by practical

0:20.3

wisdom, and insights from dads all over the world.

0:23.6

Thank you for listening, and we hope this helps.

0:31.6

Only a parent understands.

0:35.6

There was a particularly tough Spartan king. Like all Spartans, he had been

0:41.4

trained in the Agoge to be courageous and self-disciplined and beyond fear and pain. He was capable of

0:48.4

incredible feats in battle and was in peak physical condition. And as a Spartan king, he was all these things and more,

0:55.7

but he was also a father.

0:57.9

And as you know, that changes you.

1:00.4

One day, a warrior who had just left a meeting with the king

1:03.4

returned to the king's home because he'd forgotten something.

1:07.5

There he found the great man riding on a stick horse

1:10.6

to entertain his young children.

1:12.7

The man was stunned. The king just laughed. Don't tell anyone about this, he said, because you don't

1:18.3

understand. You can't. When you shall be a father yourself, he said, then you may give counsel to fathers.

1:25.7

Isn't that how it goes? All the things you saw your friends do

1:29.1

before you had kids seemed baffling. But now it all makes perfect sense. Even your own parents.

1:35.0

You couldn't quite understand why they were so tired, worried, ridiculous. Now you know it was

1:40.3

because of you. Becoming a parent changes you, mostly for the better. It's something

1:45.7

incommunicable. It's something transformative. It opens you to possibilities you never thought

1:52.0

possible. It makes you do things you've never done before. And so what if people don't get it,

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