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Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Online Cheating, The Ick, and Walkaway Wife Syndrome

Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Kirk Honda

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.61.2K Ratings

🗓️ 1 November 2024

⏱️ 78 minutes

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Summary

Dr Kirk and Humberto answer patron emails.

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00:00 What is online cheating? 
17:02 Compulsive porn use
23:54 TW Sexual abuse 
26:33 What is The Ick
49:46 Walkaway Wife Syndrome

1:07:18 Is asking for a sexless relationship possible? 
1:15:05 Upcoming Election Day

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November 1, 2024

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0:00.0

So, Berto, let's answer patron and listener emails. What do you say? Let's do it.

0:05.9

So his first emails from anonymous listener, she says, I recently discovered lots of porn

0:11.1

activity on my partner's phone. Fun. I recently discovered lots of porn activity on my partner's

0:17.3

phone. We have had this issue for years, and I believe that it's an addiction

0:22.6

that he has. He recently has come to the conclusion as well. I think that he has an addiction,

0:29.6

but with that, it was also revealed he would be sexting other women multiple times online. I feel shattered.

0:39.3

Just chiming in here.

0:41.3

So just, see, it was revealed.

0:43.3

He would be sexting other women multiple times online.

0:47.3

That could take a number of forms.

0:50.3

It doesn't necessarily matter, but it could be sex workers online, right? Like cam people, right?

0:57.4

Right. Or it could be just other people in the community. Who knows? We don't have the specifics on that. I wouldn't be

1:05.4

surprised if it wasn't sex workers that he was sexing with, you know, in terms of what it's matched up with in terms

1:13.8

of the porn but anyway going on I feel shattered he goes back and forth on whether it's

1:18.8

cheating or not and occasionally will apologize so yeah right so that kind of sounds like it's

1:24.4

probably sex workers or cam girls or whatever I feel he's trying to justify his problem.

1:31.4

Any input?

1:32.4

I feel this is an awful betrayal.

1:36.6

So, Berto, is it cheating?

1:39.6

Okay.

1:39.9

So first off, spoiler warning, TMI warning, not suitable for warnings.

1:47.1

It's a recurring pattern.

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