So I bet I have a way for even reluctant teens and tweens to spend time with you.

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Do you have a child who occasionally lashes out at you? It could be physically, it could be

verbally, it could be throwing himself on the floor or throwing things at his siblings. And no matter

what you do, it's really hard to calm this child down. One previous podcast, we've talked about

using tools like positive intensity, right? Because sometimes with an intense child, having an intense

moment, having positive intensity with that child is extremely helpful. We've talked about the concept of motion

changes emotion, that sometimes using movement is a really powerful way to calm a child down.

But on today's podcast, I want to give you a tool that's really cool. And I didn't mean to rhyme

with that because it's kind of hokey,

but it's a tool that I believe will really help you in many different areas of your life.

We're also going to talk about those times where, does this ever happen to you, where

you end up in a big argument with your spouse and you have no idea how it even began

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