On Mattering
Breakpoint
Colson Center
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🗓️ 17 October 2023
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Summary
"Want to Believe in Yourself?" The New York Times asked recently. The key is to "matter." In the article, "mattering" was given a psychological twist, defined as adding value to a community and being valued in return.
On the one hand, this is an example of missing the point of the problem. Telling someone to choose to matter is like telling someone to make meaning out of an ultimately meaningless universe with their ultimately meaningless lives.
At the same time, the author isn't wrong to imply that mattering to other people is far better than the kind of internalized self-affirmation that typically passes for therapy. Our world leads us to be inwardly focused and untethered from anything outside of our own feelings and will.
We were made to find meaning outside of ourselves, which is why deep connections and relationships matter, and help us know that we matter. This is the way God designed us. We only truly know ourselves in reference to our most important relationships—first with Him, and then others.
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| 0:00.0 | With a woman-a-look at culture from a Christian worldview, I'm John Stone Street with the point. |
| 0:04.8 | Ask the New York Times recently, where the key is to matter, and the article mattering |
| 0:08.2 | was defined as adding value to a community and being valued in return. |
| 0:12.6 | Now one hand, this is kind of an example of missing the point of the problem, telling |
| 0:16.5 | someone to choose to matter when they don't think they do is kind of like telling someone |
| 0:20.2 | to make meaning out of an ultimately meaningless universe with their ultimately meaningless lives. |
| 0:25.1 | At the same time, the authors not wrong to imply that mattering to other people is far |
| 0:29.3 | more important than the kind of internalized self-affirmation that typically passes for |
| 0:33.4 | therapy these days. |
| 0:34.7 | Our world leads us to be inwardly focused in so many ways, untethered from anything outside |
| 0:39.4 | of our own feelings and will. |
| 0:41.2 | But we were made to find meaning outside of ourselves, which is why deep connection |
| 0:45.1 | and relationships matter so much and help us to know that we matter. |
| 0:48.8 | That's the way God designed us. |
| 0:50.0 | We can only truly know ourselves and reference to our most important relationships, especially |
| 0:55.1 | with Him. |
| 0:56.1 | For the Colson Center, I'm John Stone Street with the point. |
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