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Breakpoint

On Kids Living Through Divorce

Breakpoint

Colson Center

News, Religion & Spirituality, News Commentary, Christianity

4.82.8K Ratings

🗓️ 5 May 2022

⏱️ 1 minutes

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Summary

I don't love BuzzFeed's clickbaity and crowdsourced approach to content, but a recent article caught my eye: Reddit users revealing what their childhood was like after their parents divorced.  

"When we were little, mom worked full-time and dad stayed home with us," wrote one user. "When I was six, they separated, and we only saw him once, maybe twice a year. I have never recovered from this sudden and unexplained abandonment." 

Others described having to become the unintentional middle man between their parents, or trying to keep up with both of them as adults. "Little things like that that take a really big toll on you," wrote one: "I always got physically ill before having to switch houses because of the stress." 

These anecdotes line up with the research. Divorce is awful, even if tragically necessary. And, more often than not, our culture trips all over itself to obscure its real impact. In order to protect adult feelings, we tell ourselves "the kids will be fine."  

They aren't. In fact, they deserve better. Sometimes, even BuzzFeed gets it right.  

I hope people pay attention.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Kids aren't okay.

0:01.5

For the Colston Center, I'm John Stone Street with The Point.

0:03.9

I don't love BuzzFeeds, ClickBadie, and crowdsourced approach to content, but a recent article

0:07.9

caught my eye. Reddit users reveal what their childhood was like after their parents

0:12.1

divorced. When we were little, mom worked full time and dad stayed home with us, wrote one

0:16.0

user. When I was six, they separated. We only saw him once, maybe twice a year. I've never recovered from

0:21.1

this sudden and unexplained abandonment. Others described becoming the unintentional middleman

0:25.6

between their parents or trying to keep up with both of them as adults. Quote, little things

0:29.5

like that really take a big toll on you, said one. I always got physically ill before having to

0:34.2

switch houses because of the stress. And these anecdotes line up with the research.

0:38.1

Divorce is awful, especially for kids, even if tragically necessary.

0:41.9

And more often than not, our culture trips all over itself to obscure its real impact.

0:46.3

In order to protect adult feelings, we tell ourselves that kids will be fine, but they're not.

0:51.0

In fact, they deserve better.

0:52.6

Sometimes even BuzzFeed gets it right, and I hope people pay attention.

0:55.9

For the Colson Center, I'm John Stone Street with The Point.

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