The following podcast is a dear media production.

Hi, I'm Shanei Alexander, host of Press Send, a podcast and more importantly, a safe and hilarious place

for candid conversations about the scary funny heartbreaking

but always intriguing questions that make us all human. Each week meet and a new

best friend you haven't met yet field your questions across any and all topics and offer our take on the matter

with plenty of humor, heart, and badassery along the way. We launch a new episode

of Press Send every Wednesday. We'll see you there. and I am divorced not dead. I'm a former Bravo TV star and now former wife.

Fresh off the back of my divorce, I'm bringing real stories, real life, real talk

on all things that aren't said between each other, society, the sheets and everything in the middle.

And lucky me, you'll be joining me for the journey, so buckle up.

So welcome Mindy Barnett to the show today.

So Mindy has written a book on divorce.

She's a keynote speaker, and you do PR, so you do many things.

But I was a guest on Mindy's podcast and so we had such a good time together that we decided she had to come on mine.

So and I'm fascinated by her book and she loved my whole thing about dating younger and Mindy decided to throw out her

dating profile and go down a few years.

I did it. You inspired me.

As soon as I finished mine.

Yeah.

She was like, I'm now going, I'm going younger, maybe it can work.

So Mindy, tell me a little bit about your book and what it was driven from because well I mean

about divorce and what it is that you sort of preach and how you inspire women.

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