You are listening to OK Now Listen, a bi-weekly show where we chat about what's on our minds,

what we're binging, and what's blowing up our timelines.

I'm Sylvia Obel.

I'm a culture writer, host, producer, and lover of Beyonce.

And I'm Scotty Beam, a media personality, content creator, music enthusiasts, and

win Connoisseur again because this is my last day not eating meat. I'm back.

I'm back on it Lord. She's back, bitches. I'm back with your chicken. I ain't never left. Go ahead. Well first we wanted to start off by thanking

y'all so much for all the love we got on our love episodes. Clearly, many folks are familiar with the ghetto that is dating.

And while I hate to see it, I love to see it.

Because I wish this wasn't so many of our truths but you guys made us feel like we

weren't alone and then we're very glad that what we said was able to

resonate and read y'all all at the same time. Yes, yes, y'all

shared some insight on how y'all managed to find love in this hopeless place and

we appreciate those as well.

We really did and like what's funny to me is like I know an episode is good

when my actual real life friends call me about it like I had got so many calls from my girlfriends from

my some of my girlfriends and their boyfriends who were like still let's talk

about it I heard you was I heard you I heard you I was looking for a real

n-a-a-a-a-a-a-friend who was like let's let's break it down and like

actually like affirming some of the things we said I really appreciated the men who reached out to us even on

Twitter whether it was about you know how we sometimes take for granted that men have

low self-esteem too when it comes to them shooting their shots and like them feeling worthy of

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