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Maybe you saw this.

This lady's in a coffee shop, and she's being insulted.

And I guess they didn't think she could hear what was going on.

She's a mom.

And she's overweight. And they were mocking her weight, and what was going on. She's a mom. And she's overweight.

And they were mocking her weight.

And they were making fun.

It was two ladies that were making fun of her hair, her roots.

I guess that didn't match, whatever, whatever.

And is that what you ladies do?

Oh, really?

I just thought I'd turn it this direction.

I was unprepared for that direction.

What was going to be a heartwarming moment is not turning to ridicule.

Talk about somebody's roots? Yeah, you know what? Unfortunately, as women, we are sort of conditioned

to size other women up. And you have to be very specific and intentional.

And I try to be not to do that.

You're human and you're in this culture, so you are going to notice.

Do you ever say complimentary things behind people's backs?

I do.

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