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The Daily Dad

Nourish This Wonderful Trait

The Daily Dad

Daily Dad

Dads, Society & Culture, Education, Parenting, Wisdom, Ryan Holiday, Kids & Family, Relationships, Fatherhood, Self-improvement

4.6630 Ratings

🗓️ 28 September 2020

⏱️ 2 minutes

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Summary

"Sometimes, when parents fall down on the job, it falls to someone else to do the job. The primary and most important influence on Queen Victoria, for instance, was not her mother but her beloved governess Baroness Lehzen, who later became her adviser and friend.

It was from Louise Lehzen that Victoria got the backbone that made her one of England’s great queens—one who ruled for some 63 years, more than 40 of them by herself."

Ryan describes what Baroness Lehzen did that imbued Victoria with so much strength, and how you can emulate her example, in today's Daily Dad Podcast.

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Daily Dad podcast where we provide one lesson every day to help you with your

0:14.1

most important job being a dad. These are lessons inspired by ancient philosophy, by practical

0:20.3

wisdom, and insights from dads all over the

0:23.7

world.

0:24.5

Thank you for listening, and we hope this helps.

0:31.6

Nourish this wonderful trait.

0:36.3

Sometimes when parents fall down on the job, it falls to someone else to do

0:40.4

that job. The primary and most important influence on Queen Victoria, for instance, was not her

0:46.5

mother, but her beloved governess, who later was her advisor and friend. It was from Luis that

0:52.9

Victoria got the backbone that made her one of England's

0:55.8

great queens, one who ruled for some 63 years, more than 40 of them by herself. As Louise said with

1:02.8

trademarked honesty, I have to be sure not created but nourished in the princess one quality,

1:08.8

which is to test, consider, and to stand firmly by that which the princess

1:13.4

finds right and good. Is that not your job as well to teach them how to find what's right and how to

1:19.4

stand for it, to stand firmly for it, no matter how much resistance or flack they take?

1:24.8

Victoria was lucky in the sense that this sense of resolve was not a trait

1:29.0

most girls were imbued with in the 1800s. Sadly, it remains rare for all genders even today

1:35.7

to carefully examine one's impressions, to discern the right thing from the expedient or the

1:41.1

easy from the most beneficial, to stick with it despite opposition or

1:45.1

criticism or difficulty? Yes, you have a lot of responsibilities as a parent, but none of them

1:50.4

trump this one. Yes, you want them to be smart. You want them to be helpful and healthy. You want

1:55.2

them to do good in school, but none of that will be possible without having nourished the ability

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