Human design is a part science, part spiritual system that tells you who you came here to be.

You have your own blueprint, your own way of becoming successful, your own way your dreams are going to come true,

the way you'll experience the most joy and fulfillment.

The instruction manual for how to move through the world is custom to you.

When you act according to that manual, when you move through the world is custom to you.

When you act according to that manual, when you act as the real you, everything in life comes

to you with more ease and less resistance.

We all know we're different, yet we're still acting like there's one way to do life.

Let's talk about it.

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At the recent New Paradigm Live event we did, in the break, this woman came up to me and said,

I really feel like I don't want kids and my authority is just telling me, like I'm not excited about the idea of having them, but I'm of a certain age.

And I feel like I should want kids or I should start wanting kids. Otherwise, I'm not going to have them.

And she was asking me for my advice.

This is such a loaded topic.

And I first want to just preface that what we're going to be talking about here is like

such a frontier and such a departure from the culture around baby making that, you know, you really have to do

what's comfortable for you. But this is just about exploring some different approaches that

may offer you some comfort. So the reason why I bring this up is because I think there's so many

women in this situation where there's like this artificial pressure,

and you can argue biological pressure to have children, but also that, you know,

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