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Assalamu alaikum

We get married and then we have problems and these problems are attributed to the mother-in-law

If it's not the mother-in-law, it's the daughter-in-law. If it's not the daughter-in-law

It's the husband if it's not the husband it's the wife if it's not the wife

It is the father-in-law if it's not the father-in-law

It's the sister-in-law if it's not the sister-in-law. It's the brother-in-law if it's not them then it's the interference of someone somewhere somehow

Can we not just live and let live?

Let's let people be let's not burden them with things they didn't have to do in the past

Although each one of us needs to make sure that we assume responsibility and help as

best as we can as much as we can and make sure that we contribute towards the house

Let's not raise expectations to the degree that we begin to have major disaster and problems. I mean a girl being raised in a

home where it was just her perhaps one sibling a parents and

Suddenly she goes into a home where she has to serve ten people and

Morning to evening she's just become a maid is that fair? That's not fair at all my brothers and sisters be compassionate

Think about things then on the other hand you have someone

Who comes into a home and expects everything to be done for them without lifting a spoon as they were to say that

Two is the other extreme we need to learn to contribute

proportionately and we must make sure that we

sacrifice we must make sure that we fulfill our duty and

Everyone should be making sure the same if each one of us thinks about how we've made the lives of others

Easier and how we've given them reason to smile how we've given them reason to be happy

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