Not everyone is going to like you
Date Yourself Instead
Lyss Boss
4.8 • 2.3K Ratings
🗓️ 17 April 2023
⏱️ 28 minutes
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Summary
Not everyone is going to like you or accept you - that's just how life is. The most important thing is that YOU like you. In this episode, I talk about my personal experiences with how people treated me poorly for no apparent reason at all - and what those experiences taught me. If you enjoyed this episode, always feel free to DM me on instagram @lyss and @dateyourselfinstead.
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| 0:00.0 | Hi everyone and welcome to another episode of Date Yourself Instead. I was supposed to take a flight |
| 0:06.6 | out to New York City this morning but it's pouring out in Miami and I thought I would just be |
| 0:12.5 | a better time to leave tomorrow instead so I changed my flight because I had a new episode idea |
| 0:18.9 | and I couldn't help but turn on my microphone and start recording because I think this episode |
| 0:26.3 | is really important and it's something that should be talked about so let's dive right in. |
| 0:31.6 | You weren't put on this earth for every other single person to be obsessed with you and to love |
| 0:37.2 | you and admire you. You were not put on this earth for other people to give you constant validation. |
| 0:43.5 | You were not put on this earth to receive praise from every single person that steps into your path |
| 0:51.1 | and from every single person that surrounds you. Life is short and we've been conditioned and |
| 0:57.1 | programmed and wired to see constant validation from other people at every fucking hour of the day. |
| 1:04.0 | I'm extremely guilty of this. I used to validate myself from men all the time. Men in particular |
| 1:10.5 | because I felt really attractive when a man would hit on me and I felt really pretty and it would |
| 1:17.0 | boost my confidence and it would stroke my ego and I constantly made it a challenge for myself |
| 1:23.5 | to get the hottest guys I could and to get anyone that I set my eyes on because it made me feel |
| 1:30.6 | better about myself and we often do this in our relationships. We can do this with people that we |
| 1:35.9 | want to be friends with. If we want to be well-liked we can do this in any area of our life really. |
| 1:42.5 | Trying to receive validation from things and external factors and people and situations |
| 1:48.8 | and promotions and whatever it is that'll stroke our ego and make us feel good. We're constantly |
| 1:55.8 | trying to hold on to that because it makes us feel happy temporarily. It makes us feel more |
| 2:01.1 | confident in the moment and it's easy to get sucked into this idea of if everyone likes me then |
| 2:06.3 | my life is going to be perfect. If everyone likes me then I'll like myself more. If everyone likes me |
| 2:11.6 | and approves of me and accepts me I'm going to be a better person and I'm going to be more confident |
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