Not All Vibrators Are Created Equal Feat. Susan Bratton
Good Moms Bad Choices
The Black Effect and iHeartPodcasts
4.9 • 2.1K Ratings
🗓️ 25 June 2025
⏱️ 107 minutes
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Summary
“ Pleasure is not a luxury, it’s your birthright”
This week, the Good Moms are joined by intimacy expert, author, and as we’ve decided to call her “Sex Santa” Susan Bratton for a funny and informative look into pleasure, partnership, and personal transformation through the exploration of your body.
From 12 years of sexless marriage to becoming a global educator on over 20 types of orgasms, Susan shares how she turned her own bedroom into a second career filled with vibrators, science, and soul-level healing. The three caht about everything from vulva-friendly sex toys to throatgasms, ethical non-monogamy, and the quiet power of a well-prepped yoni massage.
You can expect to hear:
(12:10) Susan’s previously dull sex life, awakening through pleasure, and how orgasmic healing saved her marriage
(20:00) What it means to be an “orgasmonaut” and why most women are settling for way too little in and out of the bedroom
(28:45) Susan breaks down over 20 orgasm types, including throatgasms, analgasms, nipplegasms, and more
(35:10) The science behind expanded orgasm and why it’s not just about sex it’s about source
(44:20) Yoni massage, the Queen vibrator, and why most sex toys are designed without Black women in mind
(51:50) Thrust-in-time: a Taoist technique to make intercourse more orgasmic and deeply connective
(1:03:30) Why Susan loves sex toys that vibe with your partner, not just beside them
(1:07:00) Grandmas use vibrators too
(1:10:45) Cannabis and your libido
(1:19:20) Ethical non-monogamy, kitchen table polyamory, and how she manages a husband and a boyfriend with her daughter’s full knowledge
(1:27:15) STI testing without the awkward clinic trip and how new tech makes screening easier than ever
(1:32:40) Affirmation of the Week: “More toys, more orgasms, more joy. Pleasure is my birthright.”
Whether you're solo, partnered, or just vibing with curiosity, this episode offers a powerful reminder: pleasure is not a luxury, it's information, it’s medicine, and it’s yours to claim.
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Links mentioned in this week's episode:
- orgasmicintercourse.com – A free resource for learning techniques for orgasmic intercourse.
- fullpaneltest.com – STI home testing service
- thrustintime.com –Technique for deeper sexual connection and stimulation.
- betterlover.com – education and resources on sex, intimacy, and pleasure.
- Lexus/Kiiro- LINK HERE
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