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Pepp Talk Podcast

No Sis, Your Standards Are Not Too High, But Your Expectations May Be

Pepp Talk Podcast

Breeny Lee

Self-improvement, Education

4.81.3K Ratings

🗓️ 20 June 2023

⏱️ 12 minutes

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Summary

Every time I heard someone say that I was too picky or my standards are too high I would get triggered and rightly so but the problem is people don't seem to differentiate between having high standards and having expectations.

In today's episode we deep dive into Your Dealbreakers, Your Standards, Your Expectations & Your Preferences.

It's crucial for us to gain clarity on what truly matters and what doesn't. Could this be the key to understanding why your dating life feels like an uphill battle?

Join me as we unravel the complexities of navigating relationships, identifying our non-negotiables, and understanding the difference between setting healthy standards and harboring unrealistic expectations.

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0:48.2

Hey everyone, it's Jagell Breeney Lee and welcome to the pep talk podcast where we have real, war, relatable conversations with the pep talk you need. You have the power to create your future the choices that you made today what

0:56.6

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1:01.2

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1:08.0

we're going to be talking about the difference between high standards and high expectations.

1:14.9

I feel like we get too confused.

1:17.4

So when someone tells you to lower your expectations, you think they are telling you to lower

1:22.5

your standards or to settle.

1:25.2

Okay?

1:25.9

And you know, Breeney is queen of not settling, knowing your value,

1:30.1

and adding tax, okay? So I would never tell anyone to lower their standards. However,

1:36.3

there is a big difference between having high standards and high expectations. Guess which one

1:42.0

is wrong. So I talk a lot on my channel about having high standards.

1:45.8

And the reason why I do talk so much about it is because I feel that there are a lot of

1:51.1

women whose standards are not high enough. So I have videos on that already. So I'm not going to

1:56.3

beat a dead horse. However, there are others on the opposite end of the spectrum who have unrealistic

2:02.5

expectations when it comes to relationships and dating. I want to level the playing field today.

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