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The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck Podcast

No Regrets, The Case Against Empathy, and Is AI Coming for Us All?

The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck Podcast

Mark Manson

Self-improvement, Education

4.83.8K Ratings

🗓️ 18 December 2024

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

This week, we dive headfirst into the messy, uncomfortable topic of regret. From the aches and grays that come with hitting a new decade to the deeper realizations about relationships, selfish mistakes, and missed opportunities, we unpack how regret shapes who we are. And there's a twist: what if regret isn’t something to fear or avoid? What if it’s a tool for growth? I share my own stories of taking people for granted, self-destructive habits, and the lessons I’ve learned about self-forgiveness and choosing your regrets wisely.


We also tackle some fascinating questions about whether empathy is actually good for society. Is it always a good thing, or can it sometimes lead us astray? To round things off, we share our thoughts on AI and its impact on creativity and human connection.


Enjoy.


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Chapters

01:14 The F*ck of the Week: No Regrets?

19:36 Brilliant or Bullsh*t: Is Empathy Always a Good Thing?

40:45 Q&A: Is AI coming for us all?


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Theme song: Icarus Lives by Periphery, used with permission from Periphery.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Mark, I joined the club.

0:02.5

Oh, which one?

0:04.1

I just turned 40.

0:05.5

Oh, shit.

0:07.4

And I'm not.

0:08.1

This isn't fishing for some celebration here.

0:10.1

I completely forgot.

0:13.4

No, no, no, no, you wish me on my birthday.

0:15.4

No, no, no.

0:15.9

I remembered on your birthday.

0:17.5

I completely forgot.

0:18.5

I was like, we're going to use Drew's birthday as a cold open.

0:22.5

And then I forgot. Yeah. I didn't forget. I've actually been reminded that I'm 40 every day since I've

0:28.2

been 40s. How is it? How have your 40s been? It's been what a week now? It's been a week. It's been a week.

0:34.6

The entire week leading up to my birthday, I'm not shitting you. My back hurt.

0:39.3

Just preparing you.

0:40.6

I know.

0:40.9

Your body is getting you ready for what's ahead.

0:43.8

So my back hurt.

0:46.2

My hair, I'm sure, got grayer.

0:48.1

It just keeps getting grayer and grayers.

0:50.0

Everybody is pointing out.

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