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No Dumb Questions with Mel: How Do I Maintain Independence in a Relationship?

AsianBossGirl

Melody, Helen, and Janet

Personal Journals, Society & Culture, Careers, Business

4.81.5K Ratings

🗓️ 31 January 2024

⏱️ 19 minutes

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Summary

Today's topic is one I received a lot of votes on for a poll on Instagram. How does one maintain their independence or identity while in a romantic relationship? I've been with my partner for almost 2 years now, and while we are still learning a lot about our preferences, one thing we both learned quickly is that we both highly value our own independence. I share through the WHY aspect of this (*hint hint we both were single for a couple of years & that solo time taught us a lot) & talk through actionable items we take to create that space for ourselves. __________________________________________ Host: Melody Cheng Editor: Victoria Cheng __________________________________________ P A R T N E R S • BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month with code “ABG” at betterhelp.com/ABG __________________________________________ C O N N E C T W I T H U S • Subscribe and Follow us @asianbossgirl on Apple Podcasts/Spotify/Amazon Music/YouTube/Instagram/Twitter/Facebook • Listener Survey: Let us know your thoughts on the podcast here • Shoutouts: Give a shoutout on the podcast here • Email: [email protected] __________________________________________ S U P P O R T U S • Merch: asianbossgirl.myshopify.com • Donate: anchor.fm/asianbossgirl/support • More about us at asianbossgirl.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

It started with an old cabbage. I was going to chuck it out, but my knee's resolution is being more resourceful.

0:06.6

So, I searched reducing food waste on Tik-Tock and found loads of videos on there. A Kimchi recipe really caught my eye. I gave some

0:15.8

to my neighbours and they loved it. And here I am. My first day at the local farmers

0:21.3

market with my new side hustle.

0:23.2

Kaleen's kimchi. Not bad for leftovers. It starts on Tik-Tock. Hello, hello, hello. Welcome to my mini show No Dumb Questions with Mel.

0:39.0

Whether you've been here before or this is your first time listening to the episode.

0:43.0

Hi and welcome.

0:44.0

I am so excited to have you here.

0:46.0

The purpose of these many shows is for us,

0:48.0

when I say us, as Helen, Janet, myself,

0:51.0

to kind of expand on our interests and our lifestyle.

0:53.6

For me, I see this mini show as a place where we, as a listener,

0:57.6

and as a guest your host, can deepen our relationship.

1:01.0

So, y'all, we are almost done with the first month of 2024. Like how? This month was so quick. The first few months always feel super fast for me because January just flies, and February is usually a shorter month and

1:15.0

also my birthday he-he-he-he maybe that's why I feel like it goes by so facts I feel like I have

1:19.3

zero time to plan anything I am the type of girl that likes to have a birthday

1:23.2

celebration not the type of like oh it's okay you can ignore me or forget about me.

1:27.8

Now this is my chance to like celebrate me. I'm a big birthday girl. So for

1:32.0

today's topic is one I actually got a lot of votes on months ago in my

1:35.4

Instagram story when I asked y'all what you wanted to hear. I had two topics for you guys to vote for.

1:39.8

I did decide to record the other episode with the higher amount of votes, but today's topic was a very close second, and a couple of listeners

1:46.8

DM me was like, just do both Mel. So I am. Today I'll be talking through how I maintain my independence while in a relationship.

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