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The Heart

No: Answers

The Heart

Kaitlin Prest

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.52.3K Ratings

🗓️ 7 June 2017

⏱️ 42 minutes

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Summary

Episode Three: Kaitlin’s search for the answer to why coercion is so omnipresent lands her in one obvious place. Straight, cis-gendered men. In this episode, Kaitlin consults the men in her life that she trusts the most to see if they had ever pressured someone into having unwanted intimacy. But she knows she cannot end her search here. [Trigger Warning]

Part of “No”, a mini-season.

Produced with the generous support of the IWMF.

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0:00.0

Hey heart listeners! I hope you're enjoying this show. We just have a quick request.

0:06.0

We are conducting a survey to hear from you, our listeners.

0:10.0

Just go to survey.prx.org slash heart to take the survey today.

0:15.0

Let us know what you think. We're so excited to hear from you.

0:18.0

That's survey.prx.org slash heart. Survey.prx.org slash heart.

0:26.0

It means a lot to us. Happy listening!

0:29.0

From prx's radio toopia, welcome to the heart.

0:38.0

I'm Caitlin Prest.

0:44.0

This is no a mini season. Episode 3.

0:56.0

This episode, like the one before it, and the one before it, contains content that could be triggering for some people.

1:05.0

In the last episode, I told stories of a couple hookups that got under my skin.

1:10.0

I want to know why this keeps happening. And in this episode, I continue my search for answers.

1:27.0

Just as I unknowingly into the disappointment of my parents, absorbed certain ideas about how I was supposed to be a girl in this world.

1:35.0

Boys, to the disappointment of their parents, absorbed ideas too.

1:43.0

Steal the beer, meet the girls, get them drunk, try to get some.

1:53.0

13 year old boy and his friends create an elaborate plan to get the girls to do sex stuff.

2:04.0

They learn from older boys and men's magazines that getting girls drunk is crucial to the goal of getting girls to do sex stuff.

2:12.0

I remember she even kind of leans into me and I'd put my arm around her.

2:15.0

In the construction site, after three beers, he slides his hand underneath the lip of Janice's pants.

2:22.0

She sits up straight. She takes his hand away.

2:29.0

He puts it back.

2:33.0

She takes it away. He puts it back.

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