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The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett

No.1 Neuroscientist: NEW Research Explains Why Life, Work & Your Sex Life will eventually get Boring! (HOW TO STOP THIS HAPPENING) Dr. Tali Sharot

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett

FlightStory

Society & Culture, Business, Education

4.613.2K Ratings

🗓️ 16 November 2023

⏱️ 92 minutes

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Summary

Is new always better? Instead of always chasing the newest thing, is there not a way that you can appreciate the people and possessions already in your life? In this new episode Steven sits down again with leading neuroscientist, Dr. Tali Sharot. Dr. Tali Sharot is the director of the Affective Brain Lab and Professor of Cognitive Neuroscience at University College London. Sharot’s research combines neuroscience with the study of behaviour and psychology to examine how emotions and motivation lead to people’s beliefs and decisions. She is the author of the award-winning books, ‘The Optimism Bias’ and ‘The Influential Mind’. In this conversation Dr. Sharot and Steven discuss topics, such as: How to shake up your life Ways to break the feeling of being in a repetitive cycle Why people become immune to joy How to see what you’ve always missed How to have the best holiday Why you should take a break from your partner to improve your relationship How to keep a relationship spicey Why humans need the feeling of being in control The secrets of motivation Why the midlife crisis is real and the ways to beat it How VR can help people overcome fear Why happiness is low in midlife How to increase productivity Why humans get bored of happiness Why the idea of living your best life doesn’t exist Why people need to disrupt their life How to increase your levels of happiness Why 40% of people quit a new job How to use change to improve your life The ways that social media is like prison Why social media is ruining expectations Ways to make people believe you How changing incentives can change your life Why Gen Z will change the world People becoming addicted to risk Why risk can help get rid of anxiety The brain trick image Dr Tali refers to - https://bit.ly/3sMa86R You can pre-order Dr. Sharot’s new book, ‘Look Again: The Power of Noticing What was Always There’, here: https://amzn.to/3SEbVp5 If you enjoyed this episode, I recommend you check out my first conversation with Dr. Tali Sharot, which you can find here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0DZK1nawEXQ Watch the episodes on Youtube - https://g2ul0.app.link/3kxINCANKsb My new book! 'The 33 Laws Of Business & Life' is out now: https://smarturl.it/DOACbook Follow me: Instagram: http://bit.ly/3nIkGAZ Twitter: http://bit.ly/3ztHuHm Linkedin: https://bit.ly/41Fl95Q Telegram: http://bit.ly/3nJYxST Brand Sponsors: Huel: https://g2ul0.app.link/G4RjcdKNKsb ZOE: http://joinzoe.com with an exclusive code CEO10 for 10% off WHOOP: https://join.whoop.com/en-uk/CEO Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

What advice would you give me to make sure that my relationship stays fresh and new?

0:05.0

Actually, there's a great study that when people...

0:08.0

The sexual desire for the partner goes up.

0:11.0

Dr. Talley Sherritt.

0:12.0

She's a neuroscientist, author, one of the world's leading researchers

0:16.3

on emotion, decision-making, and how to change our brains for the better.

0:20.7

This is negatively affecting your life and you don't know it.

0:23.7

We have a study where we asked people what was your favorite part on your vacation and we found

0:28.8

the peak of enjoyment was 43 hours into the vacation and people used one word more than any other word

0:35.8

and it was the word first the first view of the ocean the first cocktail and then

0:40.3

the joy goes down and down and down. Why?

0:43.1

It's because the input into your neurons is constant.

0:46.2

And when things are not changing,

0:48.2

our brain just stops responding.

0:50.3

And the problem is that even if you're living your absolute best life, great relationship, a good job, comfortable home,

0:57.8

after a while, those things don't bring us the joy that they should.

1:02.0

Because when something is always in front of you,

1:04.6

you stop attending to it.

1:06.8

That's true also for the not so great thing around us.

1:10.1

Sexism, racism, cracks in our relationships.

1:12.8

After a while, we don't notice them, and if we don't notice them, we don't change them.

1:16.2

One reason why happiness is low in midlife

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