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🗓️ 22 July 2025
⏱️ 63 minutes
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We’re all well-aware of the stigma associated with men’s mental health. Men are often told overtly or covertly to be just be quiet, do your job, and get your work done. And, while there is certainly some validity to us getting the job done when people are relying on us, it’s also valid to consider the mental and emotional battles we often fight as men.
Today, I am joined by retired Green Beret, Nick O’Kelly to talk about his time in service the mental and emotional anguish he faced, and what he’s done to overcome the challenges of anxiety, depression, and even suicidal ideation. We talk about how a man begins to confront these issues, finding the balance between bearing down and getting the help we need, how to find teams and avenues of support without feeling weak, and how to confront the stigma (even though we all deal with it) of men’s mental health
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Men's Mental Health Stigma
01:05 - Balancing Pride and Duty
03:12 - Debating Vulnerability
04:27 - Military Career Transitions
06:36 - Family Dynamics and Decisions
09:22 - Managing Career Expectations
11:36 - Spousal Support and Sacrifice
14:36 - Masculine and Feminine Dynamics
18:37 - Expectation Management Challenges
21:23 - Trust in Relationships
25:16 - Decision-Making Struggles
28:26 - Imposter Syndrome in Financial Planning
31:58 - Onset of Mental Health Struggles
37:55 - Consequences of Seeking Help
43:29 - Personal Anxiety Experience
47:32 - Spiritual and Physiological Factors
52:29 - High Achievers and Mental Health
54:16 - Connecting with Nick's Work
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0:00.0 | Men, we're all well aware of the stigma associated with men's mental health. |
0:04.7 | Men are often told overtly or covertly to just be quiet, do your job, and get your work done. |
0:13.0 | And while there is certainly some validity to us getting the job done when people are relying on us, |
0:19.7 | it's also valid to consider the mental and emotional battles |
0:23.3 | we often fight as men. Today I'm joined by retired Green Beret, Nick O'Kelly, to talk about his time |
0:29.6 | and service and the mental and emotional anguish he faced and what he's done to overcome the challenges |
0:35.5 | of anxiety, depression, and even suicidal ideation. |
0:39.7 | We talk about how a man begins to confront these issues, finding the balance between bearing |
0:44.9 | down and getting the help we need, how to find teams and avenues of support without feeling |
0:50.3 | weak, and how to confront the stigma, even though we all deal with it of men's mental health. |
0:56.9 | You're a man of action. You live life to the fullest. Embrace your fears and boldly chart your |
1:02.2 | own path. When life knocks you down, you get back up one more time, every time. You are not easily |
1:08.2 | deterred or defeated, rugged, resilient, strong. |
1:11.6 | This is your life. This is who you are. This is who you will become. At the end of the day, |
1:17.6 | and after all is said and done, you can call yourself a man. |
1:21.6 | Gentlemen, welcome to the Order of Man podcast. I'm talking about men's mental health today. |
1:29.7 | This is a conversation that needs to be had continually. It's one that a lot of men are dealing with. |
1:35.0 | It's one that I've dealt with personally. I address that in the podcast. And it's one that I think |
1:39.8 | will help serve you regardless of where you're at with your own personal mental health. Before I get |
1:45.8 | into my introduction with Nick, just want to mention my good friends over at Montana Knife Company. |
1:51.6 | And speaking of men's mental health, having a good knife will improve your mental health. |
1:57.3 | And I'm not trying to make light of this by any means. What I'm trying to tell you is that |
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