Newlywed Struggles with Kait and JJ Tomlin

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

Debra Fileta, M.A., LPC and Creator of TrueLoveDates.com

Self-improvement, Relationships, Education, Religion & Spirituality, Christianity, Society & Culture

4.9 • 757 Ratings

🗓️ 4 February 2025

⏱️ 60 minutes

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Couples Therapy is BACK!!! And I am so excited about the couples we have joining us for the month of February for the Couples Therapy Series. So what’s the newlywed stage really like for Instagram Relationship influencers Kait and JJ Tomlin? Today in this on-air session, I dig deep with Kait and JJ and talk through some of the newlywed struggles and hardships that have come in these early years of marriage and getting used to one another. We talk about the bad habits, conflict, and situations they’ve struggled with, and how it’s been harder than they expected. But then we offer some strategies and steps to moving forward into creating the marriage they want to have. It’s an important episode for those of you in the early years of marriage or who one day hope to be! And for those of you who are feeling stuck and need a little encouragement. You can also watch the full episode on YouTube. Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast Extras: The Debra Fileta Counselors Network: Book a counseling session at the Debra Fileta Counselors Network and get started on your healing journey from the inside out TODAY! DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, bestselling author, relationship expert, and founder of the Debra Fileta Counselors Network. She’s written seven books including Choosing Marriage,True Love Dates, Love In Every Season,Are You Really OK?, Married Sex, RESET, and Soul Care. She’s also the host of Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast (formerly the Love + Relationships Podcast) where she facilitates on-air authentic counseling-style sessions. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her or someone from her team today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:32.6	And that's the challenge for me and I think many men and women as singles is I never really put myself in positions enough where everything was exposed in that sense.
0:45.4	Like I was not in consistent enough discipleship or deep enough friendship where people had those glimpses into all of who I was.
0:57.9	Yeah.
0:58.2	It depended on me for something, you know, deeply and consistently enough where I failed them.
1:04.8	Right.
1:05.1	And then they would hold me.
1:06.4	And that's where marriage has been that gift.
1:14.1	Are you ready to talk to me?
1:16.3	My name is Deborah Felata and I'm a licensed professional counselor, national speaker, and
1:21.5	author.
1:22.4	Through my blog, books, and podcast, I have the privilege of helping millions of people
1:27.0	get healthy mentally,
1:28.7	emotionally, spiritually, and relationally. The purpose of this podcast is to have on-air,
1:35.0	authentic, counseling-style sessions where we talk about how people are really doing and give
1:41.3	my guests and callers an opportunity to talk to me as a licensed professional
1:46.1	counselor. Each of these episodes is meant to show you that we are all on the journey of healing,
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