New York Dating Culture, London vs NYC & The Restaurants Everyone’s Obsessed With | SheerLuxe Podcast
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🗓️ 26 May 2026
⏱️ 46 minutes
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Summary
Join Charlotte Collins for a special New York edition of the SheerLuxe Podcast with two ultimate insiders: content creator, author and radio host Tinx, alongside former Harper’s Bazaar editor and Forward Joy founder Chrissy Rutherford. From the best martinis in Manhattan to the reality of dating in NYC, the trio dive into everything that makes New York one of the most exciting – and exhausting – cities in the world.
They discuss the key differences between London and New York life, from spontaneous nights out and “line culture” to hustle culture, dating apps and the pressure to always be ‘busy’. Plus, expect plenty of recommendations: the restaurants actually worth the hype, the downtown coffee spots to know, the best vintage shopping, cult beauty treatments and the Brooklyn hotspots locals really rate.
The episode also explores career ambition, making it in the creative industries and the magic of putting yourself out there in New York – complete with celebrity sightings, fashion week stories and advice for anyone chasing a dream in a new city.
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Charlotte Collins | @charlotteleahcollins | https://www.instagram.com/charlotteleahcollins/
Rùadh Henderson Jacket | https://go.shopmy.us/p-59932816
Chrissy Rutherford | @chrissyford | https://www.instagram.com/chrissyford/
Primark Funnel Neck Tech Bomber Jacket | https://go.shopmy.us/p-59932891
SLVRLAKE London High-Rise Jeans | https://go.shopmy.us/p-59933085
Margaux The Fonteyn Flats | https://go.shopmy.us/p-59933152
Tinx | @tinx | https://www.instagram.com/tinx/
Guizio Body Tee | https://go.shopmy.us/p-59933460
EB Denim Low Rise Baggy Laguna Jeans | https://go.shopmy.us/p-59933387
Manolo Blahnik Ballet Flats | https://go.shopmy.us/p-59933322
Or’esh | https://www.oresh.com
The Corner Store | https://www.thecornerstoresoho.com
Altra Paradiso | https://altroparadiso.com
Frenchette | https://www.frenchettenyc.com/menus
Catch | https://www.catchrestaurants.com/location/catch-nyc
Toby’s Estate | https://tobysestate.com/
Interlude | https://www.interludenyc.com/
Oslo Coffee Roasters | https://oslocoffee.com/
Rhythm Zero | https://www.rhythmzeronyc.com/
Locanda Verde, The Greenwich Hotel | https://www.locandaverdenyc.com/
Shibui Spa | https://www.thegreenwichhotel.com/shibui-spa/
Kikis | https://kikisnyc.com
Casino | https://www.casinonyc.info/
Sofie Pavitt Skincare Studio | https://www.sofiepavitt.com/
Spencer’s Spa | https://www.spencers.spa/soho
Guizio | https://danielleguiziony.com/
With Jéan | https://withjean.com/
Pandora Dress Agency | https://www.pandoradressagency.com/
Bernie’s | https://www.berniesnyc.com/
Vinegar Hill House | https://www.vinegarhillhouse.com/
Roman’s | https://www.romansnyc.com/
Lucali | https://www.lucali.com/
Evalina | https://www.evelinabk.com/
Joe’s Pizza | https://www.joespizzanyc.com/
Scarr’s Pizza | https://www.scarrspizza.com/
Lucia Pizza | https://lucia.pizza/
Prince St. Pizza | https://locations.princestreetpizza.com/new-york
Bedford Post Ridge | https://www.bedfordpostinn.com/
The Inn at Pound Ridge| https://www.theinnatpoundridge.com/
FWD JOY Newsletter | https://www.fwdjoy.com/
FWD JOY Podcast | https://open.spotify.com/show/2R7d2aRQkSO4Q8I7AuFbxq
It’s Me, Tinx Podcast | https://open.spotify.com/show/2R7d2aRQkSO4Q8I7AuFbxq
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to a very special edition of the ShareLuards podcast with me, Charlotte Collins. I'm in New York, and I've got two very special guests with me. I've got fabulous Chrissy Rutherford and Tinks. I'm going to let you do your own bios because I'm not going to do it justice. Tell the people who you are. I am a former editor from Harvard's Bazaar, of course, and now I'm a full-time content creator. I write a newsletter |
| 0:22.2 | called Forward Joy. There's also a podcast. I feel like you're also my social media spiritual |
| 0:27.1 | guidance. Oh, sure. Yes. Astrology. Yeah. Right. Online. Everything I know about astrology. I know for you. |
| 0:33.3 | Moonlighting as a, yeah, as a little astrologer in training. Love that. |
| 0:38.6 | Thanks. Over to you. |
| 0:42.9 | I'm a radio host and an author and a content creator. You guys are both here because A, we love you. |
| 0:55.9 | But B, we are, we're here to talk about New York. |
| 0:59.2 | We're coming off the end of a week of sort of discovery for Sherlock in New York. |
| 1:04.5 | A possible look at what a Sherlock USA could look like out here. |
| 1:09.0 | And both of you are very uniquely positioned in that not only do you know New York incredibly well, but you also know London. And I mean, a bit of background, you grew up in London. Yeah, we went to high school together. We did, despite what your accent might say. I know, I just learned this today. I did not realize that. I know. I actually had a British accent in high school. Very much. So we had a twang, but... I had a little twang, but I lost it when I moved. |
| 1:31.4 | And so I grew up there until I was almost 19. Yeah. And, Chrissy, what's your connection to London? |
| 1:36.3 | Now I'm splitting my time between New York and London since 2022. And when I was an editor at Harper's Bazaar, I used to cover London Fashion Week. So that's what gave me a little taste of it. I was going twice a year. And I just, I made some nice friends. And, you know, I was building a network there. And I was like, yeah, I can see myself living here. Bit of both. Yeah. I know. It's really the best of both worlds. And we always start the show let's podcast with what we're wearing. So can I pass it over to you? What do you wear? I am wearing what I wear when I don't know. It's really the best of both worlds. We always start the Sherlock's podcast with what we're wearing. So can I pass it over to you? What do you wear? |
| 2:17.7 | I am wearing what I wear when I don't know what to wear and I feel vile. And I'm like, I need to throw something on my uniform, which is a goosey. They make the best knit, knit, tease, long sleeve and short sleeve. Didn't you know that brand. It's the best. Okay. These are eb denim, the low-rise baggie. |
| 2:19.6 | My followers know it's like my favorite gene. |
| 2:22.4 | It's actually a perfect piece of denim. |
| 2:24.1 | Manolo flats. |
| 2:24.5 | Cute. |
| 2:26.4 | And yeah, that's it. |
| 2:26.7 | Blasses. |
| 2:29.6 | These are actually Goosio as well. |
| 2:30.6 | Guzio and Key. |
| 2:31.2 | Yeah. |
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