Navigating Physical Boundaries While You’re Deconstructing with Alessandra Conti
The Refined Collective Podcast
Kat Harris
4.8 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 10 August 2022
⏱️ 66 minutes
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Summary
So your whole life you were taught to save sex until marriage from the church. You were taught it was ‘God’s best.’ But now you’re in a massive season of deconstruction. Your faith still matters to you, but it looks nothing like it used to anymore.
Who + how do you date during this season?
And what about your physical boundaries?
What if you don’t know if you want to wait until marriage anymore?
Well…today on the podcast alongside celebrity matchmaker Alessandra Conti, we go straight towards these questions. Conti is the co-founder of Matchmakers In The City, an old-school, personal matchmaking firm headquartered in Beverly Hills. Let’s dive into what she has to share!
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Refine Collective Podcast. I'm your host, Cat Harris. |
| 0:11.4 | This podcast is designed to hold space for honest conversations, from purity culture to |
| 0:18.2 | faith, sexuality, relationships, identity, culture, deconstruction, and more. |
| 0:25.8 | My hope is to look doubt in the face, be curious, seek God, and ask meaningful questions |
| 0:32.1 | to address any elephant in the room with openness, nuance, and grace. |
| 0:38.6 | I won't pretend to be an expert and definitely don't have all the answers. |
| 0:42.8 | And though it may feel easier and more comfortable to exist in the black and white, I invite you |
| 0:47.4 | to discover God with me in the gray and unexpected spaces. |
| 0:53.1 | So whoever you are, whatever you do or don't believe, you are welcome here and have a seat |
| 0:58.3 | at this table. |
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| 1:15.6 | It would be so helpful to get our message out there. |
| 1:19.1 | All right, let's go ahead and get to it. |
| 1:24.8 | Welcome to the Refine Collective Podcast. |
| 1:26.8 | I am your host, Cat Harris, and you are in for a treat this week, although I feel like |
| 1:32.8 | sometimes I say that and I don't want you to think I'm being redundant or just saying that. |
| 1:37.2 | But I really mean it this week's guest. |
| 1:40.3 | I've been wanting to chat to since I met her in January, so almost nine months ago. |
| 1:46.4 | But before I tell you about her, let's talk about Patreon real quick. |
| 1:50.0 | We have a lot of great things going on in Patreon this month. |
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