face reality. Start budgeting. Look at how much based on your attorney, how much you're going to pay in child

support or alimony or how much of the 401k is going away. Look at how you're dividing up the assets,

what assets need to be sold, like figure all of this stuff out and then on the tail end of that once you start doing that you're going to do some budgeting

Making sure that you're spending significantly less than you were before because your income was cut in half and then also and I would say this is maybe the

later stages of that is what can you do to increase your income?

You're a man of action you You live life to the fullest. Embrace your fears and boldly

chart your own path. When life knocks you down, you get back up one more time, every time.

You are not easily deterred or defeated, rugged, resilient, strong.

This is your life, this is who you are, this is who you will become at the end of the day,

and after all is said and done you can call yourself a man.

I've been very vocal about my own divorce and I know firsthand how difficult and

challenging it can be when the person that you love is no

longer interested in having a relationship with you that can be devastating to a lot of men

and in a lot of ways it is. In a lot of ways it presents new opportunities,

opportunities for you to grow and to mature

and to learn the lessons that you need to learn.

So that if you're able to salvage your marriage and continue in that relationship it will be better or it will be that much better for the next woman who will inevitably come into your life.

But as I said, it's a very difficult time, especially in the early stages.

And so what I wanted to share with you today, and I am by no means an expert on this, all that I want to share with you today

are some things that I've

learned through the early stages of my own divorce and my goal is to help you. If I can

share one or two little snippets of information that are going to serve you as you

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