I've heard people who've kind of like gone let's say like grew up the way I grew up where it was like which is a lot of people a lot of people where it was like the parents are busy

They're not into talking about what's going on or why you're

nervous or why you're feeling this way or why you're sweating, why

your tummy hurts, and say like I grew up and you hear them and they're like,

you know, nobody talked about feelings in my house and nobody

dealt with this stuff and nobody acknowledged that I had a learning challenge or

I had I had I was this I was that and that's that's a like that's a big narrative right? Natalie what do I do? I hope it's giddy giddy. It is Tuesday with Cat and

that and that just means that you're chit chatting with us. I'm gonna take one more bite

salad but I'm not going to give you

AS, the thing is well we were just she's like I'm making you were making me

laughing me laugh so hard. All your kids are like me too like they're all like

it's like Max is not Max night is the same know no but he know he talks about you like that but he does the same thing

him and marks like what the hell watch ask Teddy up and down I want no idea

where he's going but him and I are like two circles going like this and

Chloe and Olivia at the front door waiting and so is Mark so it's the two of us

and then the three of them I have lots of experience with this because

someone in my family is a very like that and I worked with them and I

live with them and I'm used to it but it's like when someone goes okay let's go

okay come on let's go. Okay, come on, let's go.

And then you're like, okay, so you like grab your shit

and you're like, or going.

And then they go and they put a piece of toast in the toaster.

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